BDSM Book List - the US Top 100

1. The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic) by Lorelei Without getting too personal, I was drawn to buying this book because of some personal growth and realizations about myself and my sexuality. The fantasies and thoughts in this book, some of them already existed somewhere within my subconscious, but reading this book gave them some release. This book is well-written and very detailed. The first chapters deal with the psychological/emotional aspects of wanting to be a dominant woman or having feelings of domaninance as a woman in society. (Nice girls don't want to hit men, right?) The book details the five archetypes of dominating women ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €13.50    Amazon DE: €13.63
2. The Story of O by Pauline Reage This is a unique and fascinating story of the unadulterated surrender of ones body mind and soul. That one, is a woman who is mysteriously named "O". .............. "O"s lover Rene, submits her to a strange house in which women are bound, blindfolded, and required to obediently do whatever they're told, for whomever tells them. The story is beautifully written, and really conjures up powerful mental images as you lose yourself in the story. I read this cover to cover on a three hour car ride, and it made the time pass far more quickly.Many debate over the authors true identity. Some think ...  Amazon US: $7.99   Amazon UK: £5.99   Amazon FR: €6.36    Amazon DE: €6.15
3. Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes: A Step-By-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage: A Step-by-step, Illustrated Guide to Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Two Knotty Boys This is the book I was looking for... only downside was the black and white photos versus color. Beyond that it was s super book for learning some of the decorative *and* useful ;) bondage methods. Had purchased several other books to learn the basics but while the results were functional, they were pretty. This book is basic enough that you don't have to be super advanced. Lots of steps-by-step pictures and solid instructions. Wish I had found this early. Between this book and Chanta Rose's book, you cover all bases for good solid functional and pretty bondage!  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.50    Amazon DE: €12.78
4. The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Building Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and Bdsm Equipment by Douglas Kent I thought I'd write an opposing viewpoint, because - with the greatest respect to Mr. Edmundson - I don't agree with the previous review at all. Firstly, I'm a complete toy addict; I make a point of visiting fetish shops whenever I'm in a new city, and have seen the best that Paris, New York, Boston, Montreal and Toronto have to offer, and I can honestly say that with the exception of *giant* furniture (like cages and thrones), there just isn't that much out there that this book doesn't cover... from the small but highly useful items (cuffs, blindfolds, collars) right up to a ...  Amazon US: $39.95   Amazon UK: £26.90   Amazon FR: €31.85    Amazon DE: €30.79
5. SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman BDSM, by nature, is shrouded in a world of fantasy. This is fantastic if you are sitting down for a good erotic "read", however, it is more problematic if you are contemplating trying to act out your SM fantasies. Fortunately, readers now have access to a non-titillating , realistic guide to SM play. Jay Wiseman is an experienced SM player and a popular lecturer/speaker at many BDSM events and his book, SM 101, has condensed down his years of scene experience into a very readable guide to SM play.It is somewhat of a 'technical manual' that explains SM terminology, the mechanics of ...  Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £18.99   Amazon FR: €19.87    Amazon DE: €20.22
6. LOVING DOMINANT, THE: New and Improved by John & Warren, Libby Warren This is the question John Warren asks in Chapter 2 of this book and if you're a Dominant, it's a very good question to ask yourself. This book is an excellent introduction to the 'kinky world' some of us live in from time to time. While there are numerous other excellent SM books on the market, John's book covers topics not normally covered in other "introductory SM books, like how to act at a play party, and taking memorable pictures of your own private scenes. Also included are sections on First Aid, "Stalking the Wild Submissive," (very important!) and ways to do scenes that are ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.20    Amazon DE: €13.38
7. Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller This is a good introductory guide on BDSM for heterosexual, male dominant and female submissive couples and for others who view BDSM as a form of sexual and romantic play. It is not, as some reviewers both on the book itself and elsewhere, claim the most complete BDSM guide today -- it never claims to be that either. It is simply what it claims, one couples' view of BDSM that may click well with others of a similar bent. However, the tone is a bit sarcastic at times and a bit "in scene" at other times and this may confuse very new people so I recommend other books such as the "Topping Book" ...  Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £17.99   Amazon FR: €19.87    Amazon DE: €18.81
8. The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green The gentlest introduction to femdom. The introduction even addresses the woman whose husband/lover took a huge risk to give her the book. Gives a fair treatment of the emotional issues facing the woman whose socialization is to be nice, pleasant, and receiving. Excellent discussion of processing emotions afterward. Good for the hopeful sub and for the domina with training wheels.  Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €9.52    Amazon DE: €9.01
9. "Justine", "Philosophy in the Bedroom" and Other Writings by Marquis de Sade This collection of works is an illuminating collection of Sade's best. The critical introductions are excellent, along with the massive chronology of Sade's life. Sade's letters and Last Will & Testament also give insight into one of France's most controversial literary minds.The collection begins with "Dialogue between a priest and a dying man", perhaps the shortest, and least depraved, of his works. The dialogue is a concise evisceration of Judeo-Christian philosophy, advocating the supremacy and amorality of Nature."Philosophy in the Bedroom" follows, which is Sade at his most ...  Amazon US: $18.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €15.09    Amazon DE: €14.29
10. Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys I bought the first book that the Knotty Boys put out and was satisfied with that, but this book is even better than the first. More ties, easy to read instructions and great pictures. If you are just starting out or have been practicing for a while, this is definitely something to pick up.  Amazon US: $22.00   Amazon UK: £16.99   Amazon FR: €17.52    Amazon DE: €17.83
11. The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton This updated edition of the classic "The Topping Book" contains all of the great information of the original, plus some updated info about "SM on the Internet," the proliferation of SM groups across the country, and so forth.I've always enjoyed the authors' writing style (very informal, friendly, and to the point) in other books they've written together and The New Topping Book is no exception. It provides lots of good information and thoughtful points. I've been into SM for over a decade, yet there were still items in this book I hadn't thought of or considered before reading it.The ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €11.91    Amazon DE: €11.80
12. Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne A very good read! Just 90 pages gives a great overview of the male chastity scene. I read it. Twice. Then gave it to my wife. Great product and forum references as well to further expand your knowledge . Well done!  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £9.95   Amazon FR: €11.79    Amazon DE: €11.88
13. The Master's Manual: Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella I am a hetero dom and, contrary to someone's earlier homophobic review, I found this book to be of great interest and extremely relevant. The need to understand dominance and submission trancends gender and orientation. The book is thoughtfully written and well edited. There are many complex philosophical issues within the leather experience that I have tangled with myself and the author addresses those issues with care, attention and the insight of one who has resolved his own internal conflicts. Jack, you done good. Thanks for your work and your willingness to share your experience. ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £11.95   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.03
14. The Compleat Slave: Creating and Living an Erotic Dominant/Submissive Lifestyle [Complete] by Jack Rinella From the back cover of the book: "Whether you are a novice D/s player or an experienced Master or slave, this insightful and forthright volume will prove to be a great read and a valuable reference guide." NOT.This was a disappointing read, given that it purports to be about creating and living an erotic dominant/submissive lifestyle. It is certainly about how Rinella does/did it, but as he points out again and again throughout the book, all relationships are different, as are the people in them. Anyone who's already started down the path to making their own D/s relationship work won't ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.28
15. Master/Slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert J. Rubel In the latest book to discuss the dynamics of Master/slave relationships, we have "Master/slave Relations: A Handbook of Theory and Practice" by Robert J. Rubel, PhD. Like similar books by Christina Abernathy, Guy Baldwin, Jack Rinella or Jay Wiseman (who contributes this book's foreword), it sets out to explore the Master/slave dynamic. Building like a pyramid through various phases of mastery (and this is primarily a book directed to dominants), Dr. Rubel power-points his way through the book's near 200 pages. Where Dr. Rubel excels here is in the details. He has a background as ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €16.57    Amazon DE: €18.99
16. The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria G. Brame I been involved in a true 24/7 BDSM Lifestyle for the past 25 years. Most of the books written on the subject were either pornographic in nature and/or lacking in the true understanding of the proper dynamics in a healthy consensual BDSM Lifestyle. This book is WONDERFUL. I completely agree with every aspect of this book. It is so well written and so informative and accurate.I usually do not read BDSM books because so many books are filled with fantasy/nonsense. This book was refreshing. My slave and I read a chapter at a time and discussed the topics. I enjoyed the authors interviewing ...  Amazon US: $22.95   Amazon UK: £22.95   Amazon FR: €18.28    Amazon DE: €17.67
17. The Art of Sensual Female Dominance by Claudia Varrin My copy is hardcover and I found it a few years ago... I had never heard of it or the author before (though she seems to fancy herself a bit of a celebrity)... but it looked interesting, so I splurged. This book is aimed at women who want to explore their dominant side with male partners, and it is easily the most heterosexual thing I've ever read in kink literature - that is to say, it is aimed exclusively at monogamous and/or married couples and follows the Female=Goddess/male=worm archetype (though the author has a healthy sense of humor about it). Although I didn't find a great deal in ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.59
18. Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman This handbook is exactly that, a "reference book" for those who want to learn more about this aspect of BDSM play. Until now, there were "bondage" sections in books like SM 101, Screw the Roses, etc but Jay has devoted an entire book to this activity. Jay has done bondage play for years and years and his experience and knowledge shows through here. As with other books Jay has written, this book is full of safety cautions and health risks related to doing bondage.Among the sections in the book include a little bit of "theory" on bondage, different types of rope that can be used, ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.20    Amazon DE: €13.62
19. Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame by Lee "Bridgett" Harrington If you ever are stranded on a desert island, and you happen to have a bunch of rope, and a very lucky partner, this would be the only book you would need!!! This book is a perfect blend of, solid foundation education, and elegant, intimate art-form. The pictures are crisp, detailed and easy to understand and the author is extremely knowledgeable and takes you through the various names in japanese which is where the art form originates from. What i liked was that the author really made it fun and easy to understand. This was a perfect beginners book, from ...  Amazon US: $21.99   Amazon UK: £16.50   Amazon FR: €17.52    Amazon DE: €16.58
20. Philosophy in the Boudoir (Penguin Classics) by Marquis De Sade D.A.F. This is the ultimate how-to guide. Instead of learning how to nail stupid boards together or talk like a foreign-man, this will teach you the delicious art of taking a young woman and filling her tight holes like they belonged to a thanksgiving turkey on thanksgiving. Pregnancy an issue? Throw it in the back! There is less disease that way, anyway. Worried about your lover's pleasure? Be like Dolmance and ignore their twaddling neediness in favor of your own robust genitals and put those genitals in whomever you please. The morals of your era are only there for God to harvest all the ...  Amazon US: $16.00   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €12.74    Amazon DE: €16.34
21. Slave, the: Marketplace Book Two (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou For anyone who is into BDSM or who is curious about what motivates people who are, this book is the best exploration of the mindset of a submissive. Antoniou very cleverly uses her central conceit - a Marketplace of willing slaves who sell themselves into multi-year contracts to wealthy Owners (under which contracts the slaves are eventually compensated) - to explore the psychological aspects of service and being property. Antoniou is herself most interested in - okay, let's be blunt, aroused by - slaves whose behavior needs to be corrected, so all of her books are filled with slaves who are ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.95
22. Burlesque and the Art of the Teese / Fetish and the Art of the Teese by Dita Von Teese And very simply the best book of its kind -- beautifully produced, with stunning visuals by great photographers, superb art direction and, of course, Dita. She re-invents glamour. It takes a remarkable model and some great stylists to hold your attention through a one-woman "show" like this, but she does it, and looks great throughout, over the course of an unbelieveable variety of settings, wardrobe, lack of wardrobe, styles and situations. Nothing lewd at all, in fact there is no nudity in this book. It's the "teese" that keeps you interested. You will not go wrong, a very, very well ...  Amazon US: $39.95   Amazon UK: £25.00   Amazon FR: €29.61    Amazon DE: €30.62
23. The Ethical Slut: Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton A few years ago, a friend of mine commented "I've seen The Ethical .... break up more relationships than I can count anymore". At the time, I thought it was funny. Not long after, my wife bought a copy for my birthday. We'd been experimenting with threesomes some and it seemed to be working out in the short term. So she started encouraging us into further-ranging experimentation and thought the book would be a useful tool in figuring our way.My primary impression of the book, and its authors, was that of a manifesto for justifying a very superficial and somewhat selfish mode of existence-- ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.50    Amazon DE: €12.78
24. The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton Who would think that being tied up and beaten could be the most pleasurable and empowering experience of one's life? Easton and Hardy's persuasive enthusiasm convinced me. Concise chapters map out a sensible and intuitive path to bring a novice from fantasy to reality. The warm, personal style is unmistakably the hallmark of Greenery Press - as is the focus on ethics and infinite possiblities. I was especially moved by the underlying message that - rather than recklessly throwing yourself at someone's feet - to be an informed and thoughtful submissive is a rare and valuable gift to a ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.20    Amazon DE: €12.01
25. Story of O by Pauline Reage The original "Story of O" is a novel. There is a comic book version by Guido Crepax which is NOT the novel. Amazon.com has mistakenly combined the reviews for the book and the comic book, which is very misleading because I wanted the novel and got the comic book!  Amazon US: $7.95   Amazon UK: £4.99   Amazon FR: €6.33    Amazon DE: €6.10
26. The FemDom Experience by Elise Sutton Elise Sutton is back with a sequel to her underground bestseller, Female Domination: An exploration of the male desire for Loving Female Authority. Her new non-fiction book is titled, The FemDom Experience, and it's a collection of personal stories from people who have participated and lived the Female Domination lifestyle as a reality. The book is divided into three sections that deal with the professional dominatrix, FemDom relationships, and FemDom groups. First, however, are a preface and introduction that delve into the growing phenomenon of Female Domination and its ...  Amazon US: $29.98   Amazon UK: £22.50   Amazon FR: €23.88    Amazon DE: €24.08
27. Slavecraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude by Guy Baldwin If you're looking for a how-to book, this ain't it! However, if you're looking for a book to contribute to and strengthen your own foundation for slaving, you'll be turning the right pages here. I found this book to be very helpful, surprisingly from both the Master and slave perspectives. (I'm a switch, have a slave (of two years) and am now looking to practice deep submission with a particular Sir.) This book gives a good foundation for BEING slave, rather than DOING slave, and it is my belief that effective and natural DOING must be preceeded by strong and confident BEING. It's ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.03
28. Bondage for Sex: v. 1 by Chanta Rose Interested in bondage? Want to combine actual sex with it? Chanta Rose's Bondage For Sex is one of the finest bondage instructional volumes I've read. It combines easy to follow directions with fantastic photos to give you a guide to tying your partner into many sexually accessible positions. There are a lot of books out there for people interested in exploring bondage. A lot of ties look good, but if you want to actually have sex with your partner many of them won't leave you the access you need. This book is the first that I've found to lay out ties that allow for easy ...  Amazon US: $31.95   Amazon UK: £22.99   Amazon FR: €25.45    Amazon DE: €24.09
29. The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly The Submissive Activity Book is your ticket to self-accountability during your journey as a submissive in the Leather and BDSM Communities. This book contains exercises and recommendations to help you improve your service with or without a power exchange relationship. If you've ever felt disconnected from your service because you weren't actively serving a dominant, this book is for you. When you learn to be accountable to yourself, you'll find serving others easier and more fulfilling. If you're engaged in a power exchange relationship and want to improve your service, this book is the ...  Amazon US: $18.95
30. Erotic Power: Exploration of Dominance and Submission by Gini Graham Scott The title, EroticPower: An exploration of Dominance andSubmission, while accurate is somewhat misleading. Its primaryemphasis is on the Female Dominant/male submissive area of what currently comes under the general heading of BDSM. Those who are seeking a broader overview of erotic power and its place in BDSM would be better served by reading one of the more current titles available. Originally published in 1980 and revised and updated in 1997, it still lacks in being a comprehensive overview of the subject of erotic power exchange due to its limited scope. At best I would suggest this only as ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £12.95   Amazon FR: €11.91    Amazon DE: €16.41
31. Venus in Furs (Penguin Classics) by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch A well thought out erotic tale.Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch's 'Venus In Furs', is interesting though eccentric, and perverse though compelling. Besieged in wonder and suspense, the love affair between characters: Severin von Kusiemski and Wanda von Dunajew, becomes a roller coaster ride of desire and emotion. The obsessive fantasy to be enslaved and brutalized by the woman he loves becomes a cruel reality for poor old Severin. As beautiful Wanda slowly becomes thrilled and captivated by the notion of fulfilling her role in his fantasy, a role that previously made her shrug and laugh, she ...  Amazon US: $13.00   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.64    Amazon DE: €10.33
32. How to be Kinky: A Beginners Guide to BDSM by Morpheous I really enjoyed this book! I am not new to BDSM, it has been a passion for about 20 years, but even with this much experience I found it informative, engaging and very funny. I dare anyone to read about the author's mother's dishwasher and not LOL. I think this will be a classic and a must have for every kinkster's library. Well done! Aurora  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €15.38    Amazon DE: €16.34
33. Radical Ecstasy by Dossie Easton If you're looking for a how-to book of tying up your partner, techniques for using tools, what parts of the body are safe to strike, etc., you'll have to look elsewhere in other books that cover these subjects. If, on the other hand, you want to know why on Earth would anybody want to do this in the first place, you've hit the jackpot in "Radical Ecstasy." If you think BDSM is all about cruelty, Dossie and Janet will convince you otherwise. They are incredibly articulate about psychological processes that are nearly impossible to describe. Come along with players on their ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.20    Amazon DE: €13.70
34. F**k Fashion by Ben Westwood  Amazon US: $33.00   Amazon UK: £19.95   Amazon FR: €26.25    Amazon DE: €23.15
35. Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM & the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera This is not an introductory text on paganism, or on S&M, nor is it a how-to guide, as evidenced by the fact that the contributors stay well away from the rough waters of defining BDSM in favor of sounding the depths of personal experience and spiritual context. The difficult and necessary work of guiding beginners through the rocky shallows is done well by others, and nearly everyone who wonders "How can I blend my BDSM practice with my pagan spirituality?" will have read and/or thought enough to understand what constitutes their own pagan spirituality and their own BDSM practice.  Amazon US: $26.83   Amazon UK: £20.50   Amazon FR: €21.51    Amazon DE: €24.29
36. Protocols: Handbook for the Female Slave by Robert J. Rubel To my knowledge, there is no other book out there like this one. After a healthy orientation to the world of Leather, the book divides into two main parts: how the slave is to behave in public Leather events and how the slave is to prepare the evening for a formal High Leather Protocol dinner. It is written in the first person, directly guiding the slave through these activities. I found this book interesting because often, particularly in new Master/slave relations, the slave is unsure what to do to serve the Master and the Master is unsure how he wants to be served. This ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €16.57    Amazon DE: €18.99
37. Flogging by Joseph Bean No, you can't learn how to flog from a book. So what can this book do for you? If you're a novice, it'll set you on the right track. If you're a slightly experienced player, it'll help finesse your technique and better understand the emotional components on both sides of the whip, and if you're an experienced player it'll give you insight into the art of flogging from one of the masters of this particular expression of pleasure. Instead of taking a dry and clinical breakdown of the activity, Joseph creates a rich conversational style, weaving in many layers of technique into the discussion ...  Amazon US: $11.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €9.52    Amazon DE: €9.69
38. You Know You Love It: Lessons in Sexual Mischief by Ilona Paris Sometimes a person knows they will like a book right away. Just as a cover catches the eye, the choice of subject matter can also reach out and capture the unwary passerby's attention. That's exactly what happened to this reviewer when one of the books cute illustrated drawings was of a woman's fingers dragging an ice cube along the back of a man's neck. For anyone who has experienced the absolute shock of a kaleidoscope of pleasurable sensations gained from adding lowly ice cubes or crashed ice to foreplay, the need to explore the rest of this book will be irresistible. The author is ...  Amazon US: $22.95   Amazon UK: £15.44   Amazon FR: €18.28    Amazon DE: €19.41
39. Female Domination by Elise Sutton I'm being generous and giving this book three stars for effort. The author tries hard to give a psychological basis for the supposed reasons for the male desire to be dominated. There are serious errors with her reasoning and claims however. My own research in sexual submissive desires reveals a high correlation with success and stress in men and women. That is, men and women in more stress-filled positions with more responsibilities tend to favor their mate being more sexually dominant. Other research too shows the same result.  Amazon US: $29.98   Amazon UK: £22.50   Amazon FR: €24.33
40. The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies by Jay Wiseman Since the author is a retired paramedic as well as longtime SM community member, I can't think of anyone better qualified to write about this topic. Jay first section is titled Basic Principles which includes topics such as what constitutes an emergency, and the legal aspects of an emergency (which although rather rare is a topic worth discussing here). The book's second (and largest section) deals with a wide range of BDSM emergencies, things like allergic reactions, burn care, bleeding, fainting, etc to "personal emergencies," like defusing arguments or emotional upsets, to what to do in ...  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €7.93    Amazon DE: €7.50
41. The Female Dominant: Games She Plays by Claudia Varrin Ms. Varrin is a slick businesswoman who is making money writing book after book about a subject she does not understand.  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €14.20    Amazon DE: €12.95
42. Female Dominance Rituals and Practices by Claudia Varrin A few years ago, I was caught off guard when my husband shared his fantasy of BDSM with me. I was flattered that he wanted to try new things with me, but I wasn't sure I'd be able to transform myself into a "Dominate Mistress". After a few feeble attempts, I threw my hands up and demanded that we try something else. Sure, I absolutely LOVED dressing up in Dom clothing and looking the part, but when it came down to it, I had NO CLUE what to do with the poor guy once it was time to deliver. Fast forward a few years later: The interest has been stirring ...  Amazon US: $22.95   Amazon UK: £15.99   Amazon FR: €18.28    Amazon DE: €19.42
43. The Toybag Guide to Medical Play by Tempest I just finished this book and can not wait to try out some of the ideas in it, I had thought medical play was to advanced for me and this book def showed me some medically themed ideas I already use and made me feel comfortable to step it up. now to look at some of the suppliers listed in the back and go play doctor.  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €7.93    Amazon DE: €7.63
44. Eric Stanton: The Dominant Wives and Other Stories (Taschen 25th Anniversary) by Dian Hanson Excellent product!! A+++++ If your a fan of firm handed women, or the naughty boy's themselves, you will love this book. Good artwork from Eric Stanton who knows a firm female! And edited by the fantastic Dian Hanson! You really can't BEAT the price either.  Amazon US: $14.99   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €9.99    Amazon DE: €9.99
45. Diary of an S&M Romance by Dollie Llama Diary of an S&M Romance is funny, kinky, sexy and really informative about the BDSM lifestyle. You can agree or disagree with Dollie's choice to be submissive, but trust me, she doesn't care whether you do or don't, and that's the most liberating pose any woman can strike. Diary didn't just stir my loins, it touched my heart, because it's also a genuninely romantic love story. Not some phony cornball romance, but a this-is-what-can-happen-when-two-people-get-completely-honest-and-real-with-each-other love story. What would happen if your lover knew ALL your proclivities? Would ...  Amazon US: $14.00   Amazon UK: £8.00   Amazon FR: €11.15    Amazon DE: €10.56
46. A to Z Of BDSM by Bill Reed  Amazon US: $14.50   Amazon UK: £10.95   Amazon FR: €12.97    Amazon DE: €12.26
47. The Pleasures All Mine: A Sexual Memoir of a Submissive by Joan Kelly When does a person go from asking why to why not? In a way, that is what Joan Kelly asks through out this memoir of her professional submission. At first, I wasn't so sure I liked Joan Kelly; she came across as aloof and subdued but then she is a submissive. Of course, you realize that she does have a strong will and certainly many personal opinions. I still don't know if I like her but I am most certainly intrigued by her. "The Memoir of a Professional Submissive" begins with Joan's search to fulfill her desire to submit by attending a BDSM club demonstration. Unlike some, Joan ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €10.64    Amazon DE: €12.08
48. The Loving Dominant by John Warren This is the question John Warren asks in Chapter 2 of this book and if you're a Dominant, it's a very good question to ask yourself. This book is an excellent introduction to the 'kinky world' some of us live in from time to time. While there are numerous other excellent SM books on the market, John's book covers topics not normally covered in other "introductory SM books, like how to act at a play party, and taking memorable pictures of your own private scenes. Also included are sections on First Aid, "Stalking the Wild Submissive," (very important!) and ways to do scenes that are ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €13.50    Amazon DE: €16.38
49. Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham This was a great book for begines or people as advanced as BDSMers. It was well organized and well writen. I really enjoyed it.  Amazon US: $18.99   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.83    Amazon DE: €14.56
50. Making Nylon Whips by Shannon Reilly The book showed only one way to approach the project and it wasn't one of the better methods. There wasn't much if any explanations of why something was done the way it was.  Amazon US: $12.95
51. The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori "Rope Bondage." Say those words out loud at a party, and most conversations within earshot will likely pause or stop. However, this is often a misunderstood art, an ancient craft that can convey a variety of meanings and experiences for those that choose to explore it, whether you opt to tie or be tied.You have an excellent instructor in hand here. Midori draws from her childhood upbringing in Japan, her education in psychology, and her experience as a SM player and educator to provide the information presented in this fantastic new publication. You learn the historical place and ...  Amazon US: $27.95   Amazon UK: £19.99   Amazon FR: €22.26    Amazon DE: €21.52
52. Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman Being in the computer field, for years I thought CBT was an acronym meaning something other than Cock and Ball Torture. While those three words might make the average man cringe or instinctively cover their groin, there are those men who enjoy it immensely and other men and women who enjoy doing CBT to them! It is for these two groups of folks that this book is primarily written for.Among the topics Haberman covers here include basic male anatomy (and there's quite a bit to know about it!), negotiation and safewords, play benefits and risks involved, safe sex play and cleaning CBT toys, all ...  Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €10.31    Amazon DE: €9.93
53. A Hand in the Bush: the Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington Contrary to my usual 'new book' practice, I read "A Hand in the Bush" twice in a row. My fascination with the subject remains strong, after a few years as a participant, but it is Deborah Addington's writing style that I found most captivating.Addington paints a very clear picture of this very intimate art in direct and often gritty terms; it is a graphic work about a graphic (and possibly intimidating) practice. Some of her favorite nouns and verbs are a little edgy; if four letter words describing sexual acts offend you, you might want to bypass this one.On the other hand, ...  Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €11.11    Amazon DE: €10.74
54. Woof!: Perspectives Into the Erotic Care & Training of the Human Dog by Michael Daniels Like many men in the world of..., you never, quite realize what you're missing until someone lays it out in front of your nose. Michael Daniels has achieved that in "WOOF!" - allowing for some serious insights into a scene that many may have glimpsed only from the periphery, thinking there was little else to it than costumes and juvenile role paying. He gives the dog play world a fully fleshed out manifesto filled with depth and heart, as well as thoroughly documented detail. (Also some wonderful bits of artwork and a bonus short story at the...ahem...tail end the the book.) If you have ever ...  Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £15.99   Amazon FR: €14.30    Amazon DE: €17.99
55. Master Nage's Guide to Training Consensual Slaves by Master Nage I purchased this book hoping to find information and "how to" training a potential submissive. I was looking for tips and hopefull a new approach on guiding someone to serve. Instead this book is another BDSM 101. Each chapter explores an aspect of the alternative world... What is the meaning of BDSM, what is a training collar, what is a Gorean relationship..... I feel the title is misleading and the book is another book geared toward people who are new or curious about the lifestlye. It doesn't bring anything new for people who have already started their exploration.  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £14.95   Amazon FR: €11.91    Amazon DE: €11.45
56. MORE FAMILY JEWELS (Boner Books) by Hardy Haberman Own up to it. You've seen the cover of this book or maybe flipped through a couple of the stories and you can barely contain the urge to get to the juicy stuff. Maybe you've already absorbed Hardy Haberman's original "The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment" and were starving for more. But maybe you're not. Why, you may ask, do I want somebody to get anything remotely painful down there?!? I mean, they're a perfectly good set of testes and I happen to be quite attached to them, you say. Good question. Perfectly reasonable, for that matter. After all, one does ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €16.57    Amazon DE: €18.99
57. The Fetish Fact Book by Paul Scott Most Americans haven't the faintest idea of how deeply fetishes have wormed their way into the popular culture. Leave it to a Brit to point out the obvious to those of us living in their former American Colony. After a brief definition of just what constitutes the sub-culture of "Fetishism," Scott provides a historical glimpse of various fetishes especially those practiced within the Christian Church almost since it's birth. In addition to the peculiar practices of some of the Saints, and in other ancient cultures, the author then examines Feudal Japan and the birth of Japanese Rope ...  Amazon US: $7.95   Amazon UK: £5.99   Amazon FR: €7.09    Amazon DE: €7.10
58. Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy While the some of the material is dated the overall product is worth the money. I got a lot out of the training and will use the lessons in training future subs. The Masters advice given is outstanding and all Dominants should take it to heart.  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.89
59. How to Capture a Mistress (M/S Studies Books) by Karen Martin Power exchange is at the core of most BDSM (kinky) relationships. Many men seek relationships that can safely (without personal threat) transfer power from them to a woman. However, as Ms Martin points out, there is a vast difference from a Mistress and a Bitch. This book explores those differences while it also outlines steps a man can take to re-shape himself in ways that will be more appealing to a woman who is, in her own right, seeking a submissive man. There is another advantage to this book: Ms Martin points out that people who fill out lists of kinky activities that may ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €15.89    Amazon DE: €18.99
60. Dances with Werewolves (Memoirs of a Spanking Model) by Niki Flynn Niki Flynn, a very strange little girl, becomes a very wild big girl in this telling of the life of a model. From the first words this book rings like the true silver, the only thing you can make your talisman out of, the only thing that can save you from your secrets. This is erotica, horror, humor, and a terrific read. Niki is talented. She is a great writer. She is a beautiful, if tortured, and enjoying it, soul. She dances in places the rest of us won't even crawl. She is naughty, you are going to want to take her across your lap and smack  Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €9.46    Amazon DE: €9.60
61. The Leatherman's Handbook by Larry Townsend This book was recommended to me - actually, I was instructed to read it - by a prospective daddy. As a newcomer to the scene, I found it quite instructive, affirming, and positive (not to mention HOT). It answered all my questions and gave me LOTS of ideas - I can't wait to try all these new things. I recommend this book to any man with an interest in SM.  Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €15.38    Amazon DE: €14.86
62. Flames of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fire Play by David Walker This book grew out of Walker and Rubel's many fire play demos they have done; the tone of the writing is very much in this vein of speaking to an audience. The photographs also demonstrate things they discuss. However it is not a training manual so please do not confuse reading this book with learning how to do fire play -- it really is something you need to learn and practice over and over with someone skilled in this area (something that Walker and Rubel repeatedly state). Nor is this a book on all types of fire play, only on dry-body fire play. Read this book to learn a bit and help you ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €15.89    Amazon DE: €18.99
63. This Curious Human Phenomenon by Peter Masters OK, I'll admit that I'm a Peter Masters fan. Masters' The Control Book is another I consider a core-reading for any library on D/s or M/s relations. After spending a few chapters making sure we're all on the same page, Masters moves on to provide some truly insightful ideas. To my utter astonishment, reading Chapter 7 changed the way I kiss when involved in a power exchange setting. Chapter 12 prompted me to introduce a new pair of protocols that has vastly helped get my partner into the head-space she needs in order both to go to work in the mornings, and to come present ...  Amazon US: $19.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €17.75    Amazon DE: €18.99
64. Latex and Nudes by James This is a great book; small format but full of great and powerful photos. The outfits are amazing and the models, just out of this world.  Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €16.57    Amazon DE: €19.90
65. Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk About it and How to Do it Safely by Bill Henkin This book is written by two experienced SM practioners, one who is a psychotherapist, and the other a sexologist. The first chapter of the book tells how they both got interested in SM.There are a number of "introductory SM books" on the market now and what I like about the well-written ones is they way they handle basic SM topics. This book is no exception to this rule. It not only covers common SM topics, such as "playing safely" (with detailed descriptions of playing with various SM "toys), but also contains sections on who you should or shouldn't play with, and also contains a ...  Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €14.30    Amazon DE: €13.76
66. Sex Tips from a Dominatrix by Pamela Pierce The author takes a light-hearted and "campy" approach to introducing SM to your partner. Written primarily from a Fem Domme point of view, the book has some interesting information. It also has some cute illustrations at the start of each chapter and some witty section titles.There is good information on shaving, how to clean your leather clothes, a great list of movies with "SM-type scenes" in them, and chapters on knot-tying and "SM yoga" type exercises. There's also good advice for getting "toys" past airport security.However, there were a few sections I was uncomfortable with. ...  Amazon US: $22.00   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €17.52    Amazon DE: €16.86
67. Erotic Bondage: Art of Rope by Edward Lee I guess I was thrown off by the the name, "The art of rope." I expected there to be instructions, but alas, there were only pretty pictures. Not that the pictures were lacking in style, composition, etc., but I wish I had bought the Japanese book instead (I think it's called the Art of Japanese Bondage). So, if you enjoy bondage as more of an idea, or are already well schooled in bondage and need some fresh ideas, go for it. Otherwise, I suggest you turn to other books.  Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £13.99   Amazon FR: €16.57    Amazon DE: €19.90
68. The Art of Spanking by Jacques Enard An exciting, tastefully erotic and beautifully illustrated piece of work by a master of drawing the female form. Although the use of various shades of red is conspicuously absent (unlike one of his "Click 2" episodes), Manara seems to want the reader to use his imagination. The text is also quite provocative--I could read it over and over, without blushing. Truly a classic in its genre!  Amazon US: $17.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €14.30    Amazon DE: €16.46
69. The Beauty of Fetish by Steve Diet Goedde The cover of the book is far more powerful than the actual content, which is rather tame and evasive. Steve Diet Goedde manages to drag down Fetish to a mundane, almost evasive level. Some images are interesting, and the overall presentation good, but the models appear like unhappy housewives or spinsters. They allude to loneliness and boredom rather than mystery and excitement. I simply expected more from this book, especially after reading the "all-praising" reviews. A few pictures are skillfully composed, but the overall effect comes well short of indulging the reader in the ...  Amazon US: $49.95   Amazon UK: £35.00   Amazon FR: €39.79    Amazon DE: €188.08
70. The Catalyst and Other Works by Laura Antoniou Laura Antoniou inscribed my copy of her new book "To Philip the Foole, who never has enough *Hot Lesbian Sex* -- Here's some for you." I was deeply touched. I've known this notorious smut peddler for more than a decade now. I've read every word in every one of her "Leatherwomen" series, and the dirty parts of all of her "Marketplace" books. Do you think she *ever* invites me to a *Hot Lesbian Sex* party? Nooooo, I get a lousy book inscription. *grumble, mutter* Fetish Diva Midori wrote the intro. She's another one who never ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £10.73   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.93
71. Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples by Violet Blue I found this book to be a thoroughly enjoyable and entertaining piece of reading. I have found that since I began working in the industry, I sometimes find myself somewhat overly informed on topics that deal with kink, fetishism, BDSM, and so on. I don't mind being knowledgeable at all. There was a time when reading a book on such a topic was very much like looking at pictures on the same topic. I was more than aroused. I was intrigued by the very idea that these activities took place. I couldn't wait to grow up and begin my exploration of the world where fantasies became realities, and all ...  Amazon US: $18.00   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €14.34    Amazon DE: €13.57
72. Fetish: Fashion, Sex and Power by Valerie Steele A very well-written and -researched essay whose clarity and wit is all the more remarkable for its breadth of subject matter (fetish and fashion, along with all the psychology, sociology, sexuality, feminism, etc. that they entail) and the high degree of subjectivity authors usually bring to that subject matter. Steele's writing is observant, engaging, stylish and piercingly critical--she gains much credibility in my mind by debunking the corset myth, for example. One flaw is that the wide implications of the subject matter often lead her off on tangents. It often takes her some time--in ...  Amazon US: $45.00   Amazon UK: £27.50   Amazon FR: €35.84    Amazon DE: €33.93
73. Consensual Spanking: An Essential Guide to Adult Spanking Games and Techniques by Jules Markham The book explained most all aspects of sexual, erotic and sensual spanking in a clear and detailed manner. Spanking is a fetish or fantasy that can be extremely ebarrassing to those that are aroused by it. When it's consentual between a man and a woman, it can be a stimulating element of sexual foreplay.It does not promote brutality or pain. The book relaxes the reader and provides guidelines for those that have had a hidden interest in spanking.  Amazon US: $19.99   Amazon UK: £10.79   Amazon FR: €15.92    Amazon DE: €12.97
74. The Real Bettie Page: The Truth about the Queen of Pinups by Richard Foster It's all in the book. All the dark and sad moments of Ms. Page's life. I admit a morbid streak which prompted me to read this book, but afterwords there was a sense of why did I need to know this much about her life. Did I enjoy her work more because of this knowledge? No. You may enjoy this book, more than I, if the sensational is your cup of tea. I took one star off because it is written in a 6-8th grade level English and it was annoying. Put your monies down and takes your chances!  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €11.91    Amazon DE: €11.70
75. Soaked: A Watersports Handbook for Men (Boner Books) by Joseph W. Bean The how-to part of this book is basically a reprint and expansion on this section of his previous book "Leathersex". The book has three sections: first longer fiction interspersed with non-fiction chapters focused on safety issues. A topic that is missing and needed is how to get a partner interested in this type of sex play or how to find someone interested in it at all. The second part of the book is seven short stories very focused on watersports. The last part looks at resources you can use to find more information and more fiction.  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €13.01    Amazon DE: €16.99
76. Rope Bondage: Precision and Persuasion with Rope with DVD (S/M Tech) (Dem-lab Presents S/M Tech) by Scott Smith This is the third in a series of rare products put out by this publisher. Each one is a gem. In this production, mountain rescue expert Scott Smith teaches basic knots (there is actually a special section for this with close-up photos), basic rigging hardware, and lots of safety techniques. Much of Scott's demonstration covers ways to do single-limb and double-limb restraints. All in all, this video and book has captured the core concepts of rope bondage and succeeded in presenting this material in a for that is easy to understand and follow.  Amazon US: $39.95   Amazon UK: £28.99   Amazon FR: €31.82    Amazon DE: €33.63
77. Return to the Chateau by Pauline Reage The book was cut into two parts by the publisher withoutPauline Reage's knowledge. I have read several other reviews by otherreaders here on Amazon, and just wanted to add some info andimpressions. History-wise, "Reage" was a very well knownwoman, a feminist in France in the 50s. She died within the last tenyears. There is a full-length book interview with her that I own thatis out of print, published when the book was first re-released in theUSA in the 70s... quite fascinating. So, to clarify, what has beenpublished on "O" is 1) The original truncated book in Francein the 50s and USA ...  Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £8.50   Amazon FR: €10.31    Amazon DE: €9.97
78. Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex by Gloria Brame This is the first book on the subject that i've actually managed to read cover-to-cover, without wanting to skip around. It also rings true with my personal experiences so far, particularly her section on "types of people to watch out for". Browsing that section in the bookstore is what convinced me to look at the book in more depth and to buy it. Upon reading the entire book i'm glad I did.I particularly like her inclusive nature, and her stressing of (nearly, she has reservations about medically dangerous stuff) everything being ok, as long as it involves people capable of ...  Amazon US: $14.00   Amazon UK: £11.00   Amazon FR: €11.15    Amazon DE: €13.87
79. Compleat Spanker (Complete & Spanking) by Lady Green The Compleat Spanker is a thin little book... 12 chapters in 70 pages, plus four appendixes. It is surprisingly thorough despite the small size, and actually has solid coverage of many striking implements beyond the traditional hand-spank.This is a well-written book. The text is tight, precise, and easy to read. Green claims an interest in spanking to be very widespread, and attempts to write a book that's approachable even without an acceptance of broader SM. Although I'm too steeped in BDSM culture to say for sure, I think she has succeeded.The main body of Compleat Spanker ...  Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €10.31    Amazon DE: €9.93
80. Trainer, the: Marketplace Book Three (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou This new edition of The Trainer really makes a difference. The story is still about Michael LaGuardia, who wants to become a trainer of slaves under the guidance of the mysterious Anderson. In the old version, I felt like I didn't know enough about Michael and his motives. I also didn't think there was enough sex in the book. There's lots more sex here, especially of the male-dominant, female-submissive type. Plus, Antoniou "fills in the gaps" by giving us more details on the slave training style of Californian Geoff Negel, and she takes us overseas to see what slave training is like in ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.89
81. Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel Not all Families use protocols. Those that do use protocols in their relationship range from using only a few protocols to having an extensive Protocol Manual written out for the slave’s use. Those who use common Leather protocols may use them slightly differently, based on the part of the country in which they live. One often hears about “East Coast versus West Coast” styles of protocols. Also, many Masters or Doms make up their own protocols as befits that particular relationship. All this is good. This issue contains articles from Masters and slaves that represent divergent ...  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £8.99   Amazon FR: €8.27    Amazon DE: €10.99
82. The Toybag Guide to Hot Wax & Temperature Play by Spectrum Greenery Press has come out with a new series of tiny books called "toybag guides" that I recently acquired. They are a sort of "small class in a book" about a specific topic. This one is about wax play and is written by an author with years of experience in this. And one thing I immediately gleaned from it was how to remove wax from a carpet (some candle wax got spilled there in a definitely non kinky moment) amusingly enough. This "mini book" has seven chapters, including an "intro" to this activity, setting up a wax play scene, dealing with a partner with excessive hair, also a rudimentary ...  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €7.93    Amazon DE: €7.98
83. Wild Side Sex: the Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual and Entertaining Essays by Midori Midori is a fantastic teacher of the arts of love and sexuality. I love her style. This book is not a how to, but lots of great sex education comes through. Loved it. Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. Artist/Sexologist  Amazon US: $18.00   Amazon UK: £12.99   Amazon FR: €14.34    Amazon DE: €13.57
84. Intimate Invasions: The Erotic Ins & Outs of Enema Play by M.R. Strict I had the pleasure of reading this book both in the prepublication stage and the final version. I found M. R. Strict to be able to delve into the reader's mind and explore many aspects of the enema curious and also experienced enema enthusiast. Purchasing this book is exciting and once you open it, you can be assured of not putting it down until every last word has been read and.......reread so that you can expel its contents into your life of fantasy or reality.  Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.11    Amazon DE: €11.27
85. Princess Spider: True Experiences of a Dominatrix by Princess Spider It is definitely boring and very very repetitive. She keep saying the same things and repeating the same concepts.  Amazon US: $12.95   Amazon UK: £7.99   Amazon FR: €10.31    Amazon DE: €9.46
86. Asia Bondage by Steven Speliotis In this beautiful book of 160 pages, New York art photographer Steven Speliotis explores his fascination with dominance & submission. He specifically chose to work with Asian females, utilizing the their long and well known history of cultural subordination as the pedestal on which this work stands. The noted contrast between the white ropes that he uses along with his models' silken white skin with the dark and isolated studio in which they are "imprisoned" is what captures you. This, one might say, is Steven's secret ingredient - a potent use of minimalism. That's all it is: black hair and ...  Amazon US: $32.95   Amazon UK: £14.99   Amazon FR: €17.75    Amazon DE: €16.85
87. Betty Page Confidential by Bunny Yeager Bunny Yeager met Betty Page in Miami in 1954, during one of Page's annual pilgrimages to the sun, sand and surf she adored. Page was the top pin-up model in New York at the time and Yeager an aspiring photographer. They hit it off and Page agreeably posed even when Yeager could only pay her $5. They had a lot in common. Yeager started out as a model herself, taking camera courses at a vocational school, for fun and to augment her portfolio with self-portraits. Both were expert seamstresses, sewing their own bikinis. Bunny Yeager never intended to become a top professional glamour ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €12.13    Amazon DE: €14.21
88. When Someone You Love is Kinky by Dossie Easton One of the hardest things about being "kinky" is trying to find a way to tell your friends, relatives, lovers, etc about your "alternative lifestyle." Some of choose not to, because of the fear they will be ridiculed or ostracized by those close to them. So some that are into "kink" choose to keep it a secret.When Someone You Love Is Kinky is a wonderful book to give to a friend or lover to explain to them some of the reasons why you enjoy this lifestyle. The authors take a calm and understanding approach in this book, perfect for non-kinky readers who might wonder why their otherwise ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €12.71    Amazon DE: €12.93
89. In Search of a Master by John Preston "Young, virile, and hungering for something more than a stagnant New England mill town has to offer, Timothy is at a crossroads. He can work in the local lumberyard, his nightlife limited to fleeting, clandestine encounters with strangers. Or he can earn more money than he ever dreamed possible. The price: the next three years of his life. ¶ Now, willingly enslaved by the enigmatic man known only as Montclair, Timothy is imprisoned on a lavish estate. Here, his harshest nightmares--and most erotic dreams--are about to become reality. Never looking back, Timothy plunges into a bizarre, ...  Amazon US: $14.00   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €11.15    Amazon DE: €10.56
90. The Love of a Master by John Preston I adore John Preston writing and had previously brought his books. This novel is somewhat not very intriguing. The plot more of repeating itself. Another thing is that perhaps John Preston is too cautious in HIV/AIDS education that he put in some condoms use for oral sex between the players.  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €13.01    Amazon DE: €11.27
91. Female Submission: The Journals of Madelaine by Claudia Varrin Female Submission: The Journeys of Madelaine is the true story of Claudia Varrin's time spent in London as a sexual female submissive to a well-known British master. Unlike Erotic Surrender, the first book of this two-book set, which was written to empower the female submissive and make her feel pride in her sexual preferences, this book relates her actual day-to-day experiences while living with the master. Using the journals that Madelaine wrote in every day so as not to forget her experiences and emotions she felt as a sexual submissive, Female ...  Amazon US: $21.95   Amazon UK: £15.99   Amazon FR: €18.94    Amazon DE: €17.73
92. Bound to be Free: SM Experience by Charles Moser "Bound To Be Free" is an interesting mix of the professional and the personal. The first three chapters, written by noted sexologist Charles Moser, M.D., PhD, are a good overview of what is known in a scientific way about SM. (Actually, not much although the observation that about one person in ten is interested in SM is interesting.) The rest of the book is written by SM practitioner JJ Madeson.The book contains good information about the multi-faceted nature and definition of SM, and a good essay on the nature of consent. There are also numerous and somewhat lengthy descriptions ...  Amazon US: $21.95   Amazon UK: £19.99   Amazon FR: €17.49    Amazon DE: €23.03
93. Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Couples by Patrick Califia-Rice This second edition of this book takes the material in the previous edition, updating it in certain spots and adds new material. As another reviewer has pointed out, this book is not a "how to do BDSM manual," instead it covers more of the emotional and mental aspects of doing BDSM. And each of the chapters finishes with an erotic SM story, one that fits the topic just discussed in the chapter. Topics the author covers include myths about SM and demystifying them, communication & negotiation, impact play, developing role preferences, different SM relationships, finding community, and even a ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €11.91    Amazon DE: €11.80
94. Entertainment for a Master by John Preston "Volunteers needed for a very private, very elegant S/M party for a discreet group of ladies and gentlemen to be held in San Francisco. Only the very willing and the experienced need apply. . ." And only a virtuoso of erotic fiction could build a spellbinding novel from the planning and preparation for an S/M party. In Entertainment for a Master, acclaimed author John Preston follows a skilled and respected dom as he interviews — and personally inspects — the men who respond to his unusual ad. Carl, a former Marine, will drop and give his master fifty, kissing his boots at ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €13.01    Amazon DE: €11.51
95. Play Piercing by Deborah Addington This book is a very good introduction to play piercing. It provides a great tutorial for those getting started although in my opinion I think a hands on class should be mandatory before starting something like this. Written words don't have the same power as someone in front of you demonstrating and teaching the act. My only complaint is the section on nipple and genital piercing. The impression I got was that I shouldn't go near these areas but what about all those real life instances of witnessing people pierce those areas? Now, I am just scared instead of being informed. I think that ...  Amazon US: $13.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.83    Amazon DE: €11.22
96. The Toybag Guide to Canes & Caning by Janet W. Hardy This tiny book offers some a "quick and dirty" introduction to the world of canes and caning. Ms Hardy offers some of her thoughts about this activity, as well as some of the "luridness" of it (she mentions Micheal Fey's caning in Singapore as an example of this), and also a chapter that she calls "The Craft of Caning," which is a short lesson on how to cane someone. Later on, she turns the tables by describing "how to receive the caning," as well as the different types of canes and finally making your own and how to take proper care of them so that they last a good long time.Since this ...  Amazon US: $9.95   Amazon UK: £6.99   Amazon FR: €7.93    Amazon DE: €7.63
97. How to be a Dominant Diva by Georgia Payne This book details exactly how to go about taking charge of your sex life. If you are a woman curious about how to start experimenting with some role play in your sex life, this is the perfect book for you. It details step by step how to set up role play scenes: what to wear, what props you might need, what to say, how to to go about every aspect of spicing up your sex life. And it is full of ideas for the timid to the daring so I can see using this book for a long time. The fantasies are hot, so just reading this book will add some heat before you even start trying it out. Perfect for the ...  Amazon US: $24.95   Amazon UK: £17.99   Amazon FR: €19.87    Amazon DE: €19.69
98. Marketplace, the: Book One (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou This is the story of four slaves - Brian, Claudia, Sharon and Robert - who all have an inherent need to be "owned" in the fullest sense of the word. We follow their journey as they are trained in a crash course by Alex, Grendel and Chris.Basically, The Marketplace is a secret society catering to those who wish to own well-trained slaves and those who wish to be sold as slaves. When we're talking about a slave in this context, we're talking about one with no limits.I'm ambivalent about this book for a number of reasons. Firstly, if this was reality, the training provided in this book ...  Amazon US: $15.95   Amazon UK: £9.99   Amazon FR: €11.83    Amazon DE: €12.23
99. The Ultimate Guide to Strap-on Sex: The Complete Resource for Women and Men by Karlyn Lotney I was very disappointed by the lack of useful information in this book. Nothing was presented that you couldn't find with a simple key word search of the internet. I had hoped for useful suggestions, interesting insight, maybe some tips for making the experience more enjoyable. Instead it read like a glossary of the toys. If you already know what hardware there is available this book won't be much help. It didn't even have suggestions about which toy might be superior for which purpose. I was hoping for a more comprehensive treatment of the act and how it could enhance the bond between my ...  Amazon US: $14.95   Amazon UK: £10.99   Amazon FR: €11.91    Amazon DE: €11.51
100. My Private Life: Real Life Experiences of a Dominant Woman by Mistress Nan This is the first book I've ever read that I feel is real. This woman has experienced what she has written about. It is NOT fantasy. She has honed her skills to a point that she is an expert at the exchange of power that is paramount to a BDSM scene. This book isn't all about pain or bondage. This book isn't all about fantasies. This book is about power, control and sensuality. You hear about her feelings while she is doing what she is doing. You hear about what her bottoms are feeling. You learn how she gets into their heads and hearts. I'm amazed at the candor with which she writes. ...  Amazon US: $16.95   Amazon UK: £11.99   Amazon FR: €13.50    Amazon DE: €13.38