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| 1. Die Kunst der weiblichen Dominanz by Claudia Varrin Unser erster Eindruck und auch der Spätere war, das Buch ist für den profesionellen Bereich gedacht und geht schnell ins eingemachte.
Für DIE Damen, oder auch Herren, die es tatsäclichh so extrem ausleben wollen ist es sicherlich ein guter Einstieg.
Für jene, die mehr Sinnlichkeit und Erotik haben wollen und "Spieleinlagen" dieser Richtung einbringen möchten, nur bedingt ( zu denen ich gehöre).
Angesichts des Preises ist es auch eine Möglichkeit das Denken des Partners über solche Praktiken zu erfahren, nur es ist eben sehr nüchtern beschrieben und es fehlt das ...
Amazon UK: £6.76 Amazon FR: €9.90 Amazon DE: €9.90 |
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| 2. Die Wahl der Qual. by Ira Strübel Ich habe dieses Buch gekauft, weil ich mehr über das Thema wissen wollte und um meinen eigenen Gefühle und Phantasien verstehen zu können. Warum gibt es Menschen, die Schmerz genießen? Warum existiert dieses Phänomen? Insbesondere die Statements ganz 'normaler' Sadomasochisten sind sehr aufschlußreich. Und ganz nebenbei habe ich gelernt, daß meine eigenen, bisher unterdrückten Phantasien so abartig dann doch nicht sind. Bin ich Sadomasochist? Bisher dachte ich es, aber nach diesem Buch bin ich es eigentlich nicht. Hin und wieder ein Rollenspiel und etwas Schmerz im richtigen ...
Amazon UK: £6.11 Amazon FR: €8.81 Amazon DE: €8.90 |
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| 3. Die 120 Tage von Sodom by D. A. F. Marquis de Sade Ich beginne meine Rezension mit einer kleinen Inhaltsangabe:
Vier abstoßende Subjekte, die es durch Hinterlist und Verbrechen zu einem nicht unerheblichen Reichtum geschafft haben, entscheiden sich, ihren Gelüsten in einem abgelegenen Schloss, dem niemand entfliehen kann, nachzugehen. Das Buch unterteilt sich in fünf Abschnitte: Einleitung und Teil 1 - 4. In der Einleitung werden uns die Protagonisten nahegebracht, Teile 1 - 4 sind Ausführungen über verschiedentliche Gelüste, die progressiv "amoralischer" werden. Teil 2-4 sind dabei auch im abnehmenden Maße ausformuliert. Man muss ...
Amazon UK: £5.54 Amazon DE: €7.95 |
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| 4. Wie Mann seine Sklavin findet. Und behält. by Gregor Sakow Sei du selbst! So lautet, auf den Punkt gebracht, Herrn Sakows These zum Auffinden, Ergreifen und Behalten einer Sklavin. Authentizität ist der Dreh- und Angelpunkt, um bei der Suche nach der passenden Sklavin erfolgreich zu sein. Neben allen sinnvollen Tipps und Anregungen, die stets mit Humor an den Leser gebracht werden, kehrt Herr Sakow immer wieder zurück zu dem Punkt, an dem Mann erkennen kann: Wer bin ich eigentlich? Was will ich wirklich? Wie wirke ich auf mein Gegenüber? Mit viel ironischer Distanz baut er dem Leser Brücken, Stege, breite Autobahnen, um sich vom eigenen Idealbild ...
Amazon DE: €17.50 |
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| 5. Das Bondage-Handbuch by Matthias T. J. Grimme --Ein großartiges Buch für den interessierten Neueinsteiger.Um mal den ganzen Kommentaren den Wind aus den Segeln zu nehmen, die sich über die Fotos beschweren: Die Fotos dienen als Veranschaulichung. Und für diese Aufgabe sind sie hervorragend geeignet.Dem Einsteiger wird hier langsam aber sicher vermittelt, wie er sich dem Thema "Bondage" nähern kann.Alles wird bedacht, was wichtig ist. Aber man behält auch genug Spielraum für die Phantasie.Der einzige Kritikpunkt: Es ist zu kurz. Dadurch, daß die Beschreibungen der einzelnen Techniken sehr detailliert sind, passen ...
Amazon UK: £15.00 Amazon FR: €19.04 Amazon DE: €21.50 |
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| 6. Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes: A Step-By-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage: A Step-by-step, Illustrated Guide to Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Two Knotty Boys Hurra! Bondage um der Kunst willen - oder wer schön knoten möchte.
Für all diejenigen, für die Bondage lediglich ein Spielmittel des SM ist und die Zweckmässigen (hauptsache Subbie kommt nicht mehr aus): seht euch bitte nach etwas anderem um.
All jene, denen es auch oder besonderst auf die Ästhetik ankommt, die sich gerne in Details verlieren, oder schlussendlich schöne Bilder ihrer Bondage Kunst hervorbringen möchten: KAUFEN!
Dieses Buch hat nichts mit traditionellem Shibari oder zweckmässigem Fesseln zu tun. Es behandelt das Thema Bondage ...
Amazon US: $16.95 Amazon UK: £10.99 Amazon FR: €14.04 Amazon DE: €14.34 |
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| 7. Das SM-Handbuch by Matthias T. J. Grimme Meiner Meinung nach ist dieses Buch besonders geeignet um Anfängern einen Überblick über dieses Thema zu geben. Es werden ein paar einfache Techniken dargestellt, es wird erklärt, was möglich ist und von was man als Anfänger die Finger lassen sollte.Das Buch stellt keinen Anspruch auf Vollständigkeit, diesen könnte es auch garnicht erfüllen. Im Anhang findet man deshalb eine Empfehlung weiterführender Lektüre. Der Autor hat besonders darauf geachtet, den Leser immer wieder auf die emotionale Seite einer SM Beziehung hinzuweisen, und den Leser an die Verantwortung ...
Amazon UK: £14.08 Amazon FR: €19.11 Amazon DE: €21.50 |
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| 8. Wie man eine Herrin findet: Rat-Schläge für den passiven Mann by Lilith of Dandelion Lilith beschreibt auf sehr ansprechend, ja geradezu liebevolle Art und Weise, zu welchen Fehlern speziell devote Männer neigen. Sie schreibt so, dass man merkt: Interesse und Zuneigung zum devoten Mann an sich sind ihre Triebfeder. Sie bietet eine erweiterte Sicht der Dinge an, die devoten Männern helfen kann, sich so zu präsentieren, dass die Chancen, einer dominanten Frau zu gefallen, massiv steigen. Lilith zeigt auf, worauf devote Männer achten sollten bzw. mit welchen Gedankenlosigkeiten man eine Frau vertreiben kann. Dem Leser wird gezeigt, dass FemDoms, die an sich devote Männer ...
Amazon DE: €17.50 |
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| 9. Das SM-Handbuch Spezial 1: Klinik, Dominanz-Submission, Elektroplay, Grenzspiele und mehr by Matthias T. J. Grimme Rezension aus Schlagzeilen 80:In den ersten Jahren der offenen SM-Szene wurde das Wissen über Techniken und Sicherheitsregeln fast nur mündlich weitergegeben. Die einzige schriftliche Quelle für wissbegierige SMer war The lesbian S/M safety manual" ein schwer zu beschaffendes dünnes Büchlein aus den USA. Diesem Mangel versuchten die Schlagzeilen durch die regelmäßig im Heft erscheinenden Sicherheits-Breviers abzuhelfen.1996 machte sich Matthias Grimme dann daran, auf Grundlage der Sicherheits-Breviers, der Praxis-Erfahrung der Redaktionsmitglieder und dem Wissen vieler ...
Amazon DE: €22.00 |
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| 10. Burlesque and the Art of the Teese / Fetish and the Art of the Teese by Dita Von Teese Eigentlich hatte ich ein reines Fotobuch erwartet, aber das ist nich der Fall. Zwar findet man zahlreiche wunderschöne Dita-Fotos, aber das ist nicht alles. Dita spricht auch über sich, bringt die Geschichte des Burlesqu näher und gibt zahlreiche Tipps für Freunde des Retro-Looks.Im zweiten Teil des Buches gibt Dita einiges über die Geschichte der Fetish-Kleidung zum besten und auch wie sie damit in Berührung kam und was ihr Interesse darin weckte.Auch wenn ich mich nie zuvor mit Fetischismus großartig beschäftigt habe und das Buch eigentlich nur gekauft hatte um ein paar schöne ...
Amazon US: $39.95 Amazon UK: £25.00 Amazon FR: €31.86 Amazon DE: €33.39 |
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| 11. Asia Bondage by Steven Speliotis Absolute Kaufempfehlung für alle, die ein Faible für Bondage haben.Stimmungsvolle schwarz/weiss Photographien mit zum grössten Teil soften Bondages.Die Porträt Aufnahmen bestechen durch den eingefangenen Ausdruck auf den Gesichtern, die Körperaufnahmen durch die ganz natürlichen Schwächen eines Frauenkörpers. Da wurde keine Cellulite (wenn es denn mal eine zu sehen gab) wegretuschiert.Es gibt auch einige Aufnahmen ohne direkten Bondage Bezug, aber das ganze Buch sprüht vor Erotik!!!Ein Buch das ohne "Schocker" auskommt, voller Ästhetik und anspruchsvoller Erotik!
Amazon US: $32.95 Amazon UK: £14.99 Amazon FR: €22.90 Amazon DE: €16.85 |
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| 12. Radical Ecstasy by Dossie Easton For millennia, seekers have used physical and emotional extremes to achieve transcendence and exaltation. Today, many BDSM and leather practitioners are discovering the potential of SM practice to reach personal, interpersonal and spiritual goals. In this enlightening work, bestselling authors Easton and Hardy document their own journeys into the transcendent realm of kink. With their trademark frankness and humour, they share their own stories and philosophies - one author's journeys along Eastern and pagan spiritual paths, the other's frustatingly left-brained struggles to accept undeniable ...
Amazon US: $16.95 Amazon UK: £11.99 Amazon FR: €14.04 Amazon DE: €13.42 |
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| 13. The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green It was a rainy Friday in October when my wife unwrapped the gift on the table. I had just left our house to visit the "Whisky Brothers" for a wet night of Scotch, cards and cigars...I had my cell phone with me and I kept waiting for the call to return home, it never came...When I returned home Saturday morning, I went straight to bed and she didn't say a word about the book. Saturday night we went to bed, and she still didn't mention the book with one single word, the suspense was killing me...Sunday morning I woke up tied to the bed, it had begun...WOW this book is really GREAT. Thank ...
Amazon US: $11.95 Amazon UK: £8.99 Amazon FR: €9.90 Amazon DE: €9.99 |
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| 14. Der SM Ratgeber für Einsteiger. Sanfte Einfü by Alexa Adore das einführungsbuch hat ganz viele vorteile und wichtige hinweise für anfänger auf dem gebiet. und für alle, die sich unsicher sind, ob sie S oder oder M oder überhaupt SM sind, wird eine art psychologischer selbst-test vorangestellt. danach weiss man bescheid und hört entweder weiter ODER ist geheilt. viel selbsterkenntnis für wenig geld ;-%
Amazon UK: £12.52 Amazon DE: €15.90 |
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| 15. Flogging by Joseph Bean Flogging is one of the few S/M techniques that can be learned safely by experimentation. The learning can of course be much faster with high quality information and instruction, and that is exactly what is to be found in this book. Flogging is possibly the most popular activity in the erotic repertoire, and this book is the ultimate one stop guide. Offering sensations raging from gentle massage through tearing agony, this comprehensive guide to the whys and hows of flogging, by a long-time leatherman explains how to choose a flogger, create a scene, read your partner's mental and physical ...
Amazon US: $11.95 Amazon UK: £9.99 Amazon FR: €9.90 Amazon DE: €10.05 |
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| 16. Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk About it and How to Do it Safely: How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely by Bill Henkin This book is written by two experienced SM people, one of whom is also a psychotherapist and a sexologist, and it does a very good job of covering the basics (and some of the not so basics) of SM. It is written in a readable, straightforward style.It covers the basic SM safety practices of limits, consent, negotiation and safewords. It also covers how to do basic SM practices such as whipping, spanking, bondage and hot wax.It includes good material on finding partners and on the SM scene, although since it was written the newsgroup alt.sex.bondage has changed to ...
Amazon US: $17.95 Amazon UK: £11.99 Amazon FR: €14.87 Amazon DE: €13.47 |
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| 17. Diary of an S&M Romance by Dollie Llama Diary of an S&M Romance is funny, kinky, sexy and really informative about the BDSM lifestyle. You can agree or disagree with Dollie's choice to be submissive, but trust me, she doesn't care whether you do or don't, and that's the most liberating pose any woman can strike.
Diary didn't just stir my loins, it touched my heart, because it's also a genuninely romantic love story. Not some phony cornball romance, but a this-is-what-can-happen-when-two-people-get-completely-honest-and-real-with-each-other love story. What would happen if your lover knew ALL your proclivities? Would ...
Amazon US: $14.00 Amazon UK: £8.00 Amazon FR: €11.60 Amazon DE: €11.09 |
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| 18. SM-Lexikon. by Arne Hoffmann Arne Hoffmann ist ein Routinier; er ist kompetent und schreibt in einem angenehmen, flüssigen Stil. Natürlich kann man dieses Lexikon zum Nachschlagen verwenden (oder - dem Thema entsprechend - zum Zuschlagen), aber man kann es auch mit grossem Genuss von A bis Z durchlesen. Es ist für Anfänger gut geeignet, aber auch für erfahrene SMler informativ - so beispielsweise die ausführliche Abhandlung über SM und Zensur. Ein gutes und nützliches Buch.
Amazon UK: £8.86 Amazon FR: €12.77 Amazon DE: €12.90 |
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| 19. Philosophie im Boudoir by Marquis de Sade Ich bin also die erste Kundenrezensentin bei Amazon zu diesem Erotik-Klassiker. Au fein! Das läßt vermuten, daß die Damen und Herren, die außer mir Ihre Lebenszeit an dieses Unwerk verschwendet haben, entweder nicht allzu zahlreich sind oder aber nicht auch noch über Gebühr weitere Lebenszeit dafür aufbringen wollten.
Die Grundidee ist ja ganz aufregend: Ein absolut tabuloses Geschwisterpaar weist ein jungfäuliches Mädelchen in alle möglichen erotischen Freuden und Abgründe ein. Da besagtes Geschwisterpaar von Hause aus reich ist und somit nicht allzuviel Konzentration ...
Amazon DE: €9.95 |
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| 20. Bondage. by Tom Schmitt Das ist ein gutes und nützliches Buch. Es ist vor allem für Einsteiger geeignet, der Fortgeschrittene wird nicht allzu viel Neues lernen. Allerdings ist es von und für männliche Homosexuelle geschrieben, Frauen kommen nicht vor. Das ist zwar beim Thema Bondage nicht allzu schlimm, aber all jene Fesselungstechniken die nur bei Frauen funktionieren, bleibt das Buch zwangsläufig schuldig. Heteros und Lesben sollten sich also (auch) in anderen, ähnlichen Büchern umsehen.
Amazon UK: £10.99 Amazon FR: €14.34 Amazon DE: €16.00 |
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| 21. Story of O by Pauline Reage I first read this book 30 years ago as part of Lit Group assignment. The psychiatrist who suggested it and led the discussion was fresh out of school. Then it was naughty litature. Reread many times over the years allows a different perspective. Now I consider it facinating. "O" is 'trained' to take punishment over pleasure and obediance to total possession. Her lover is master. Her life is his. Is it enough? Its a tour de force in the power of mind, body and spirit to worship the underbelly of human need.
Amazon US: $7.95 Amazon UK: £4.99 Amazon FR: €6.59 Amazon DE: €6.65 |
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| 22. Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne A non-threatening, female-friendly introduction to the topic of male chastity, ideal for nervous keyholders or as a love-offering from a would-be-chastened male.
Amazon US: $14.95 Amazon UK: £9.95 Amazon FR: €12.39 Amazon DE: €11.84 |
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| 23. Ties That Bind: The S/M/Leather/Fetish Erotic Style by Guy Baldwin As a hetero male switch, I didn't find Mr. Baldwin's gay male perspective to be at all limiting. As the book states clearly in the introduction, they could easily have changed a few pronouns and put the book into more universal language, but what would have been the point? Some of the illustrations used gay male examples of SM eroticism (the author must be seriously into boot polish! :) But it was pretty easy for me to mentally replace some of these erotic examples with some of my favorite fetishes as I read the book, to make it apply to me.I'm not sure this book would be a good ...
Amazon US: $16.95 Amazon UK: £11.95 Amazon FR: €14.04 Amazon DE: €13.42 |
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| 24. The Human Pony: A Guide for Owners, Trainers and Admirers by Rebecca Wilcox Fetishes are an integral aspect of adult human sexuality and come in all forms. 'Ponygirl' and 'Ponyboy' refer to a man or woman being accoutered in a harness and leather outfit that emulates that of an equestrian mount -- of being turned into a horse for the benefit and pleasure of a master or mistress. A unique contribution to the growing library of adult sexual instructional literature, "The Human Pony" by Rebecca Wilcox provides an informed and informative discussion identifying the nature of 'pony play', pony and trainer headspace, fetish equipment appropriate for 'pony play', the ...
Amazon US: $27.95 Amazon UK: £18.29 Amazon FR: €23.16 Amazon DE: €22.14 |
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| 25. Justine oder Vom Mißgeschick der Tugend. by Donatien A. Fr. Marquis Sade Vorsicht, Voyeure! Dies ist kein übliches Buch im Marquis-de-Sade-Stil (dessen Name wohl im Volksmunde mehr Schrecken verbreitet als Hannibal Lecter). Erzählt wird die tragische Geschichte des Leidenswegs eines Menschen der versucht, auf dem richtigen - tugendhaften - Pfad zu bleiben. Es enthält nahezu keine "schlüpfrigen" Stellen in der gewohnten Marquis-Manier, sondern bietet vielmehr den Einblick in eine Welt, wie sie war und wohl noch heute ist: Der tugendhafte Mensch muss zwangsläufig in einer Welt voller Korruption und Intrigen zu Grunde gehen. Marquis de Sade beschreibt Justines ...
Amazon DE: €7.95 |
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| 26. The Mistress Manual: A Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance (Erotic) by Lorelei Why I wrote "The Mistress Manual"To all the readers on Amazon.comA lot of men want to serve and worship women. Unfortunately, a lot of women have no idea how to command the service, appreciate the worship, or acknowledge their own desires for sexual control. Being a Mistress goes against everything we’re ever taught about being selfish, about the roles and relative power of men and women, even about what feels good. Yet becoming a Mistress—and it was a terrible struggle for me—is the most rewarding thing I have ever done. The power I learned to accept and use has ...
Amazon US: $16.95 Amazon UK: £12.99 Amazon FR: €14.04 Amazon DE: €14.17 |
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| 27. Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman One of the author's stated objectives in writing this book is "to deepen, broaden, clarify, and update the body of knowledge regarding bondage." To this end, the Handbook is an unquestionable success. Perhaps more importantly, this book puts a huge body of bondage knowledge into a concise, available, and accessible form.Handbook contains over 200 pages of pure rope and bondage knowledge, written by someone obviously passionate about the topic. Jay's instructions are generally quite clear, although some ties (Japanese Arm-wrap Harness comes to mind) would benefit from a numbered or ...
Amazon US: $16.95 Amazon UK: £11.99 Amazon FR: €15.28 Amazon DE: €14.17 |
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| 28. Fisting Sachbuch. by Kim Powers Ich schwanke ob ich dem Büchlein 3 oder 4 Sterne verpassen soll. Es ist nicht wirklich schlecht oder gar falsch, aber es ist eben auch nicht wirklich gut und nur bedingt hilfreich. Tja...Wer neugierig auf das Thema Fisting ist, und sich einen groben Überblick verschaffen möchte, der kann hier zugreifen. Wer schon Erfahrungen mit dieser Art der Sexualität hat oder wer gar schon Fortgeschritten ist, der kann sich das Buch getrost sparen.Erläutert werden in groben Zügen die Anatomie, die Techniken und die Gefühle die beim Fisten auftreten können. Aber nichts geht wirklich in die ...
Amazon UK: £10.26 Amazon FR: €13.12 Amazon DE: €14.95 |
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| 29. H.E.L.P.: Hell Enters Life Permanently by Thomas van de Scheck van de schecks darstellungs- und ausdrucksmöglichkeiten scheinen sich in H.E.L.P gegenüber dem vorangegangen bildband CUTs potenziert zu haben. es gelingt ihm in klinisch kalter ästhetik perfekt zu inszenieren und gleichzeitig (!)tief blicken zu lassen ... in abgründige, erotische, provokante phantasien, oder in vielleicht doch nur etwas abseitig gelegene alltagswelten? ebenso wie die, ja tatsächlich malerischen, durchstilisierten körperdarstellungen, bestechen die oft grellen, immer intensiven und vor allem pointierten Farbgebungen. hier ist ein anregendes, fotografisches meisterwerk ...
Amazon US: $28.23 Amazon UK: £24.95 Amazon FR: €33.28 Amazon DE: €19.95 |
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| 30. Venus im Pelz by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch Auf Leopold Sacher-Masoch, dem Autor der „Venus im Pelz", muss die Enttäuschung schwer gelastet haben. Nicht nur, dass man sich seines Namens bediente, um eine Perversion zu benennen(Masochismus), viel schlimmer dürfte für Sacher-Masoch gewesen sein, dass sein Name zwar zu einem bekannten Begriff wurde, sein Werk aber gleichzeitig in fast völlige Vergessenheit geriet. Dem Maquis de Sade, Namensgeber des Gegenbegriffes Sadismus, und seinen Werken fehlte es nie an Beachtung, aber wer kennt schon Sacher-Masoch und seine „Venus im Pelz"? Der Roman aus dem Jahre 1870 erzählt die ...
Amazon UK: £5.46 Amazon DE: €7.95 |
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| 31. Alazar's Book of Bondage: v. 2 by Alazar Adult black & white collection of hand-drawn pin-ups (drawings of women in bondage).
This is the second collection of Alazar's bondage artwork. Just like the first one, this collection is filled with women in various stages of bondage and undress (some, like the girl on the cover, is fully dressed (though with her skirt back and panties a little out of alignment)) and some are mostly to completely naked like the girl on the back cover (the only two pictures that are in color). And like the first collection, some of the pictures come with little statements from Alazar, like ...
Amazon US: $9.95 Amazon UK: £4.99 Amazon FR: €7.63 Amazon DE: €3.56 |
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| 32. CUTS. by Thomas van de Scheck Ohne Worte! - Einfach nur anschauen und auf sich wirken lassen!Dieser Bildband ist ein absolutes Meisterstück des Fuldaer Fotografen. Schön einige Bekannte Gesichter wiederzusehen.Also jetzt keine Promis, sondern Freunde und Bekannte meinerseits.Und das ist etwas, dass das Buch so fazinierend macht.Die fotografierten Personen sind Menschen wie du und ich. Nur mit dem ein oder Anderen Körperschmuck mehr. Kaum zu glauben, was tvds aus ihnen gezaubert hat.Für Freunde des Ausergewöhnlichen absolut zu empfehlen.Und zu schade um es einfach ins Regal zu stellen...
Amazon UK: £20.46 Amazon DE: €9.95 |
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| 33. Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns was recommended to me by a gentleman friend who knew I was new to the scene and wanted to learn more about it. It's gives direct, easy descriptions delivered in a funny way that keeps you feeling like you'll have fun if you try it, not trying to scare you off or tell you what to do. The gentleman wasn't lying when he said you'd turn back to the book time and time again, and that it would become your handbook many times over. Most importantly, it teaches you how to have safe and delicious fun whether you're new or experienced. A definite buy!!!!
Amazon US: $24.95 Amazon UK: £17.99 Amazon FR: €20.67 Amazon DE: €20.85 |
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| 34. SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman It's hard to believe that this book or author has developed a following. All I can think is that people out there are even more clueless than this author. If this guide is "realistic" I'd hate to know what an unrealistic attitude is. The book's focus seems to be on what the people the author plays with think is exciting. Typical arrogance for a newbie, but really grating in someone who bills himself as a long-time player. For practical how-to advice try SCREW THE ROSES, SEND ME THE THORNS, and for intellectual stimulation anything by Gloria Brame or Pat Califia are heads and ...
Amazon US: $24.95 Amazon UK: £17.99 Amazon FR: €20.67 Amazon DE: €20.85 |
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| 35. Venus in Furs (Penguin Classics) by Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch _Venus in Furs, a Novel: Letters of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch and Emilie Mataja_ by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch contains the both the story "Venus in Furs" and a selection of letters between Sacher-Masoch and budding writer, Emilie Mataja.
"Venus in Furs" is about a man who is obsessed with having his new mistress treat him like a slave. In particular, he wants her to become his ideal "venus in furs" and begs her to don furs and wield a whip against him. His desire to be treated as such is tested when she convinces him to sign an agreement to be her slave. The story is well-written, ...
Amazon US: $12.00 Amazon UK: £8.99 Amazon FR: €9.94 Amazon DE: €9.83 |
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| 36. The FemDom Experience by Elise Sutton An experience is the process of personally participating in an activity, event or lifestyle. Fantasy does not always translate over to reality because reality must contend with the bodily limitations of the physical world, whereas fantasy enjoys the unlimited boundaries of the imagination. Nevertheless, fantasy is often the product of reality. For one person's fantasy is another person's reality. Notable FemDom author Elise Sutton examines the Female Domination lifestyle by taking the reader into the personal relationships and sexual practices of everyday people who live astonishing secret ...
Amazon US: $29.98 Amazon UK: £22.50 Amazon FR: €24.84 Amazon DE: €23.74 |
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| 37. Das ultimative BD/SM Lexikon von A-Z by M. Marino Nachdem es ja schon längere Zeit ein SM-Lexikon von Arne Hoffmann gibt, wird hier etwas nachgeschoben, das mit BDSM nur in geringem Maße zu tun hat. Während Herr Hoffmann sachlich und informativ ist, ist dieses Buch billig und reisserisch!Das beginnt schon bei der Gestaltung. Farbenprächtige Bilder mit sexuellem Inhalt finden sich auf jeder Seite, jedoch passen sie selten zu den erklärten Begriffen. Dazu kommt, dass ich die wenigsten Bilder als ästhetisch empfinde, sondern einfach nur dumpf und aus irgendwelchen Masturbationsvorlagen entnommen.Es werden Begriffe erklärt, die zwar ...
Amazon UK: £13.53 Amazon FR: €18.08 Amazon DE: €19.95 |
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| 38. Fetish Girls (Ill) by Eric Kroll Bilder, Bilder, Bilder in Hochglanz und ohne Trivialität. Über Frauen und was ein Mann darin sehen und was er daran lieben kann. Sexy und provozierend, ja auch, aber mit einer unerwarteten Tiefe und Authenzität über den Reiz von sexueller Austrahlung und Signalen.
Amazon US: $27.23 Amazon UK: £16.99 Amazon FR: €19.99 Amazon DE: €20.00 |
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| 39. Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame by Lee "Bridgett" Harrington Japanese rope bondage and erotic macramé look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful and sexy art form today. Bondage artist and educator Lee "Bridgett" Harrington takes you step-by-step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetically rewarding rope work. Each tutorial is broken down into easy to follow photographs by Circle23 with detailed descriptions, including how to tie all those knots (first secret of Japanese bondage revealed- there are only a few simple knots). From restrictive poses that limit movement to ...
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| 40. "Justine", "Philosophy in the Bedroom" and Other Writings by Marquis de Sade These stories, the best the Marquis ever wrote, are among the finest literary works I've ever read.Justine is a wonderful story about a poor girl who goes through life suffering one misfortune after the other (10 in all.) She has her toe cut off, is abused in a convent, punched by the elderly and forced to do slave labour amongst other things. The book is entertaining and paints a bleak look of a women who has chosen the unwise path of Virtue over Vice.The Philosophy is equally if not more entertaining. The story is a simple tale about a group of libertines who take it upon ...
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| 41. The Toybag Guide to Dungeon Emergencies & Supplies (Toybag Guide) by Jay Wiseman Since the author is a retired paramedic as well as longtime SM community member, I can't think of anyone better qualified to write about this topic. Jay first section is titled Basic Principles which includes topics such as what constitutes an emergency, and the legal aspects of an emergency (which although rather rare is a topic worth discussing here). The book's second (and largest section) deals with a wide range of BDSM emergencies, things like allergic reactions, burn care, bleeding, fainting, etc to "personal emergencies," like defusing arguments or emotional upsets, to what to do in ...
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| 42. Sex Tips from a Dominatrix by Pamela Pierce Ms Payne hits the mark with panache and humor. It was a pleasant change of pace to read a direct and witty approach about sexual preferences. The factual information is very easy to understand. Her tact and humor allowed me to get thru some "touchy" subjects, yet left me wanting to know more. She encourages exploring your own ideas and fantasies, yet making sure you know how to do it safely. She takes a very taboo subject and creates a very open, low-key, "you might enjoy this" attitude. The art throughout the book continues her theme of informational humor and wit. Each drawing adds ...
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| 43. The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton Die Autorinnen kennen beide Seiten des Spiels und stellen eine Bandbreite von Themen in diesem Buch vor. Eigene Erfahrungen illustrieren eindrücklich und mit Witz vor allem die "Gefühlslage" des/der Bottom. Anleitungen wird man hier nicht finden. Das Buch stellt dennoch eine gelungene und durchaus lesenswerte Einführung dar.
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| 44. Look into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Bring Out the Best in Your Sex Life by Peter Masters The First Book Of Its Kind To Examine The Place Of Hypnosis In Modern Sexuality; For readers interested in sexual experimentation, or any couple who simply want more fun in the bedroom. Look into My Eyes is a well-written and informative book on how consensual use of hypnosis can add a whole new dimension to readers' sexual lifestyle. Peter Masters brings several decades worth of research and real-life exploration to bear on the subject in an informative and easy-to read instructional guide. The book offers a step-by-step guide to responsible hypnosis in the bedroom and can help couples reduce ...
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| 45. The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by A.N. Roquelaure Wenn ich das goldene Zitronenhundehalsband für den langweiligsten SM-Roman vergeben müßte, dieser wäre mein Favorit.Nur wer auf inhaltslose Aneinanderreihung von verschiedenen SM-Praktiken steht und Handlung eigentlich in einem Buch als lästig empfindet ist hier richtig.Das hat nichts mit Prüderie zu tun, aber es langweilt mich auf Seite 3 schon eine Entjungferung zu lesen ohne auch nur etwas von den Gefühlen der Hauptakteure zu erfahren.Auf Seite 5 bringt er Ihr bei, daß sie Ihm zu gehorchen hat, wie sie anzusprechen hat und daß sie ab jetzt immer nackt zu sein hat.Sie nimmt ...
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| 46. Story of O by Pauline Reage An erotic novel, which is a sequel to "Story of O".
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| 47. Beauty's Release by A.N. Roquelaure is the menage-a-trois between Laurent, Tristan and Lexius. I am a woman, and never in my life could I have imagined that a male homosexual scene would do this to me. I made love with my husband three times the same day I read this. So much emotion, love, depth and pure raw sex and hunger. It's one of the most fascinating scenes I've ever read.
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| 48. Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella Throughout this book, I found myself agreeing with a lot of what Jack has to say. His words resonate with my philosophies about BDSM. As some of you know, he has a weekly email column called "Leather Views" and reading this book in some ways is like an extended version of one of his column. His writing is always entertaining and usually thought-provoking, as is this book.Since this book applies to leather relationships, most chapters are devoted to topics relating to these kinds of relationships. From the beginning chapter on "leather vocabulary," to the chapter called "Archetypes of SM ...
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| 49. The Real Bettie Page: The Truth about the Queen of Pinups: The Truth About the Queen of Pinups by Richard Foster First of all, there was no point in this book being put out except for cashing in. I tried to tell myself after reading about Bettie's life going downhill after she loses her looks and her struggles with serious mental illness, almost killing someone, etc wasn't true but I couldn't quite convince myself. And I'd give anything not to have seen that horrible mug shot of her, which you can't deny is authentic. Though I did see a picture of her when she was 40 or so and still looked stunning. I don't want to remember her like that. I bought "The Life Of a Pin-Up Legend" a few years ago which ...
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| 50. The Art of Sensual Female Dominance by Claudia Varrin This book is great! I am a novice in this vast and mysterious world of BDSM and it seems everywhere I look its more about male Domination. Varrin not only takes you step by step through the fundamentals but she covers all the little details and questions a novice might have. For every area she has ideas and suggestions that go from mild to wild. But I think the best part is how she comes across so supportive- always reminding you that you are worth it! This is a great book for building your confidence in and outside the bedroom.
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| 51. Dances with Werewolves (Memoirs of a Spanking Model) by Niki Flynn "Dances with Werewolves (Memoirs of a Spanking Model)" sollte nicht nur für Spanking-Liebhaber eine Pflichtlektüre sein. Kurzweilig und selbstironisch beschreibt Niki Flynn ihren Werdegang: Von der schüchternen Studentin zur Hauptdarstellerin zahlreicher Spanking-Filme und Internet-Clips.
Dances with Werewolves ist jedoch keineswegs bloße Unterhaltungsliteratur. Ohne selbstherrlich zu sein, erklärt Niki ihre Phantasien und leistet so einen wichtigen Beitrag zu mehr Toleranz und Akzeptanz ungewöhnlicher Fetische. Auch die absurdesten und schrägsten Situationen schildert ...
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| 52. The Toybag Guide to Medical Play (Toybag) by Tempest This is the latest in the Greenery Press's popular "Toybag" series. Mad doctors and nasty nurses...white coats and latex gloves...shiny instruments and the sharp tang of alcohol...what a playground for the fetishist, BDSM practitioner or sexual adventurer! All those who've ever fantasised about bringing the scary, evocative world of the doctor's office into their playspace will learn: how to set up playspace with fun, realistic equipment, even on a budget; how to stock a kit with everything needed to play doctor; ideas for treatments and exams that they don't teach in medical school; how to ...
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| 53. Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham Domestic Discipline is a lifestyle choice for couples who want to rebalance their relationship and live in harmony through the application of caring, loving, discipline. This book show you how to set up, run, and benefit from a disciplinary lifestyle. Topics include: Why do people want a DD lifestyle? The Philosophy and Psychology of DD. Spanking and other forms of discipline. Corrective versus restorative discipline. Orgasm control and sexual focus. Discipline and emotional cycles. Synchronising your cycles. Applying the discipline. Maintenance discipline. Denial and Chastity. Enema ...
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| 54. Mr. Benson by John Preston The story of a young man's quest for the perfect master. In a West Village leather bar he finds wealthy, sophisticated, exacting Aristotle Benson, who leads him down the path of erotic enlightenment, teaching him to accept cruelty as love, anguish as affection, and ultimately, Mr. Benson as his master.
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| 55. Slavecraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude by Guy Baldwin If you're looking for a how-to book, this ain't it! However, if you're looking for a book to contribute to and strengthen your own foundation for slaving, you'll be turning the right pages here. I found this book to be very helpful, surprisingly from both the Master and slave perspectives. (I'm a switch, have a slave (of two years) and am now looking to practice deep submission with a particular Sir.) This book gives a good foundation for BEING slave, rather than DOING slave, and it is my belief that effective and natural DOING must be preceeded by strong and confident BEING. It's ...
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| 56. The Mastery of Submission: Inventions of Masochism (Cornell Studies in the History of Psychiatry) by John K. Noyes That individuals sometimes derive sexual pleasure from submission to cruel discipline is no longer a dark secret hidden in society's closet. As witnessed in many popular movies, sadomasochism has entered the mainstream. How it achieved this status and, more important, its origins are the focus of this scholarly work. Noyes (German and literary theory, Univ. of Cape Town, South Africa) claims that although literary references to the practice date back to the 16th century, it was largely an invention of the late 19th century?an attempt to understand individuals for whom the economy of reward and ...
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| 57. Marketplace, the: Book One (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou For the normal human being this is a really hard novel about a training camp for slaves. The training is very often followed by severe punishment. Those who are not much into pain, could avoid the lecture of this book. Otherwise it is a beautiful story, with a good structure and a generous portion of suspense. It's really very readable.
Throughout all the hard education that takes place, there is also plenty of space for real feelings. After all, submission is at its core a very strong expression of love. In this book there is plenty of that.
Oh, did I mention that ...
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| 58. The Story of O by Pauline Reage This story is well-written from a technical point of view. The language is colorful and alive. It has a nice mixture of drama and psychological revelations about a woman becoming more and more involved in slavery. I use the word "slavery" because this story really is about slavery. It's not a love story and anyone looking for some semblance of love in this story will be very disappointed. Although there were declarations of love by several of the characters in this story, I feel that none of them really felt love. They were tied up in the trimmings of a master/slave relationship, but I ...
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| 59. Exit to Eden by Anne Rice (writing as Anne Rampling) Auf diesem Buch basiert der Film "Exit to Eden" mit Paul Mercurio als Elliott, welchen man aus der Josef-Bibelverfilmung kennen dürfte. Ich muss sagen, dass Exit to Eden ein relativ nett geschriebenes Büchlein ist, allerdings für die Hardcore BDSMler oder andere Leute, die auf jeder Seite puren Sex erwarten nicht geeignet. Anne's Stil zeichnet sich eher durch die Abwechslung von Witz und Erotik ab, was besonders in der Verfilmung wieder zu erkennen ist.Alles in allem ein schönes Büchlein für die Badewanne, aber wer es etwas härter mag, ist mit Sleeping Beauty von Anne Roquelaure ...
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| 60. Beauty's Punishment by Anne Rice (writing as A.N. Roquelaure) I'm amazed at the comments of other readers. Who reads bookslike this for the character development? The same ones who readPlayboy for the articles? This is not a fairy tale; it is not a character study. It is intended to be sexually arousing, and either you find it to be so, or you don't. But, please, read something else if you want character development.
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| 61. Play Piercing by Deborah Addington Providing safe and responsible information on how to enjoy the kinky pleasures of piercing, "Play Piercing", a recent addition to the lexicon of kink, offers insight, pleasure and erotic thrills. This is one of the very first books to explain in detail the hows and whys of this fascinating practice and offers detailed, responsible information on anatomy, safety and resources for play piercers. Like all Greenery Press books on potentially risky practices, it's been vetted by several kinky-positive physicians to ensure that its information is responsible and up-to-date. In addition to the nuts ...
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| 62. How to be Kinky: A Beginners Guide to BDSM by Morpheous Finally a reader-friendly how to book! This book is as user-friendly as it gets...the author writes as if he's actually talking right to you. The book is broken down into categories, so whether you're just curious about one little thing, or you've been online for years and think you're a pro but haven't ventured beyond your living room, this book is for you! I read this book cover to cover and frequently return to my favorite chapters. Buy this book and go sit by your mailbox. Its *that* good.
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| 63. The Art of Sardax (Great British Erotic Art) by Sardax "The Art of Sardax" is the second title in a series of compact books by The Erotic Print Society entitled Great British Erotic Art. Men! Be frightened. Be very, very frightened...Sardax is here. Exciting. Elegant. And very perverse. British artist Sardax has created a rich and complex universe that, among the aficionados of Femdom (female domination), enjoys international renown. In the world of Sartopia, men are worthless, but not entirely useless. They can, for instance, become sexual playthings for women. For the male of the species, pain is transmuted into pure, masochistic pleasure, while ...
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| 64. Trainer, the: Marketplace Book Three (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou I couldn't wait to read the 3rd book in the trilogy as I had certainly enjoyed the first two. I was so disappointed I could feel it. Don't get me wrong, it was still way better than the normal s/m crap that is so prolific but Laura spoiled me with her two other works. The character wants to be a trainer of slaves but how he comes across is a royal pain. After so many annoying anectdotes you know that anyone off the street would be better than this guy. The last 20 pages does not make up for all the earlier annoyances of his character. He is stupid, vulgar and not charming in any ...
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| 65. Mummification: Down at the End of Bondage Street with DVD (S/M Tech) by Joseph W. Bean In what promises to be a very exciting series, noted lifestyle presenter Joseph W. Bean has been enlisted to launch a series of instructional DVD/Book combinations that will provide safe and easy to follow instructions in BDSM play. The concept is simple: videotape a presentation in front of a studio audience, giving thorough and uncomplicated directions, and then transcribe the affair in a book that you can follow along while viewing the DVD in the privacy of your own home. DemLab opens the series with the topic, "Mummification: Down At The End Of Bondage Street."
Mr. Bean is an ...
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| 66. Consensual Spanking: An Essential Guide to Adult Spanking Games and Techniques by Jules Markham Consensual spanking is for adults wishing to indulge in a spanking relationship either for pleasure or as lifestyle choice. Topics include: why people enjoy playing spanking games; how to conduct a spanking; how to receive a spanking safely; organising a typical spanking session; positions, postures and presentation; use of spanking implements; aspects of role-play; basic control techniques; sensual and erotic forms of spanking; spanking as fore-play; and domestic discipline.
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| 67. Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship (Toybag Guide) by Midori This book spells out some fantastic ideas for foot and shoe worship for everyone - from the beginner on up -- from lush recipes for foot-pampering scrubs and soaks, to meticulous, wicked ideas of how to incorporate foot/shoe worship into practically every type and perspective of D/s relationship.
I've been worshipping boots, heels and occasionally feet onstage, for benefits,
and in private for a few years now and was so happy to see what it
means to me spelled out - and even happier to see such wonderful ideas
on combining lots of approaches with worship. I ...
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| 68. MORE FAMILY JEWELS (Boner Books) by Hardy Haberman From powerful and intense to subtle and sublime More Family Jewels explores and explains the ins and outs of male genitorture. The word genitorture might bring some frightening images to mind, but in reality it is not always about pain. It can incorporate a full range of sensations from sensual to painful. Explained in detail through stories and personal anecdotes, Hardy Haberman gives the reader more tools and tips to enhance their sex lives. Heterosexual and homosexual readers alike will find these accounts erotic as well as educational. Basic safety and anatomy are combined with ...
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| 69. Story of O part II by Pauline Reage "The Return to the Chateau: Story of O" is widely acknowledged to be one of the most famous erotic novels of all time. Graham Greene described it as 'A rare thing, a pornographic book well written and without a trace of obscenity'. Harold Pinter called it 'A remarkable piece of work', while Brian Aldiss proclaimed 'I do believe that Pauline Reage has confounded all her critics and made pornography (if that is what it is) an art'. In "Story of O: Part II", O returns to the place of her initiation, an elegant chateau outside Paris, where she submits completely to the sexual whims of one man, her ...
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| 70. The Art of Spanking by Jacques Enard An exciting, tastefully erotic and beautifully illustrated piece of work by a master of drawing the female form. Although the use of various shades of red is conspicuously absent (unlike one of his "Click 2" episodes), Manara seems to want the reader to use his imagination. The text is also quite provocative--I could read it over and over, without blushing. Truly a classic in its genre!
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| 71. The Pleasures All Mine: A Sexual Memoir of a Submissive by Joan Kelly The sweet-natured daughter of a teacher and school principal, Kelly is initially an unlikely player in the sadomasochism realm, more like a journalist reporting on an underground scene. But in relaying her love of paddling, spanking and caning, Kelly emerges as a true submissive, not just an observer. Her journey—and it's a fascinating one—begins when she takes a weekend job as a professional submissive in a "private dungeon." Pent-up with sexual frustration after a breakup with her first master, she's by turns ravenous for punishment and nervous from inexperience. Eventually, she decides ...
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| 72. Rope Bondage: Precision and Persuasion with Rope with DVD (S/M Tech): Precision and Persuasion with Rope (Dem-lab Presents S/M Tech) by Scott Smith This is the third in a series of rare products put out by this publisher. Each one is a gem. In this production, mountain rescue expert Scott Smith teaches basic knots (there is actually a special section for this with close-up photos), basic rigging hardware, and lots of safety techniques. Much of Scott's demonstration covers ways to do single-limb and double-limb restraints. All in all, this video and book has captured the core concepts of rope bondage and succeeded in presenting this material in a for that is easy to understand and follow.
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| 73. Making Latex Clothes by Sian-Kate Mooney The first practical book on the subject with instructions for basic garments.
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| 74. Different Loving: A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria G Brame Written by a practicing and thoughtful participant, Gloria
G. Brame, to the world of sexual domination and submission,
Different Loving provides accurate and poignant insights of
alternative relationships. Brame employs an open, nearly
scientific, but not sterile or technical language, writing
style to speak candidly about the nature of the many styles
of sexual dominance and submission. Her style is dramatically
and quite effectively contrasted with her collection of
informal interviews by various scientific, as well as sexual,
professionals and amateurs involved in alternative ...
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| 75. Slave, the: Marketplace Book Two (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou Ive read a LOT of S&M fiction and other erotic books,, and I have rarely found a book I treasure as much as this one. All 3 of the Marketplace books are fantastic,, but this one is the best, probably because it really explores the psychology of submission,, and the deep desires Robin has to submit to her trainer (Chris),, one so much in control (not out of control). What is also fantastic about these books is that the story spans across all 3, leaving you wondering about certain details about the characters lives, and pushing you to read the other 2 books to try to satiate your curiosity. I ...
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| 76. The Love of a Master by John Preston This is an unforgettable man-on-man erotica from the grand master of gay S&M fiction. John Preston's powerful and darkly insightful classic "The Love of a Master", follows the Master's patient, deliberate and wickedly inventive training of his two boyish but determined devotees as they release themselves to their submissive natures, to the "fear and anticipation" that comes with true service. Will Tim step up on the slave block and give himself body and soul to the highest bidder? Will his friend Marc do the same or accept the Master's rare offer of a permanent - if painful - position in his ...
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| 77. Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM & the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera Throughout history, from the Hindu Kavadi ceremony to the Lakota Sun Dance, the Ordeal Path has been an honored spiritual road to the magic of the flesh, and to touching the Gods. Today many Pagans are discovering this path, by accident or by design. Simultaneously, many practitioners of secular BDSM are finding themselves having spiritual experiences in the middle of their most secular scenes. This book explores the crossover points between both these communities and practices, a cross-section which is growing steadily, baring controversial articles on topics as diverse as sacred pain, ...
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| 78. The Reunion (Marketplace) by Laura Antoniou The two most popular characters in this groundbreaking S/M erotica series are reunited in a complex tale of difficult choices and searingly hot sex! The fifth Marketplace novel sees the return of Robin, now a veteran slave wondering whether to return to the auction block. At a special "slaves only" vacation at a Marketplace-run Irish Castle, Robin meets slaves from all walks of life, some of whom are struggling - like her - with their own futures. To her delight, Robin is reunited with her Trainer, Chris Parker, who is mixing a little business with his vacation. But someone at the castle is ...
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| 79. Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy While the some of the material is dated the overall product is worth the money. I got a lot out of the training and will use the lessons in training future subs. The Masters advice given is outstanding and all Dominants should take it to heart.
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| 80. Histoire d'O / Retour à Roissy by Pauline Réage Histoire d'O est assurement un ouvrage de reference en matiere d'erotisme. Il devoile un aspect subtil du sado-masochisme qui sont le plaisir de la soumission, de la domination et du vice. Je regrette pourtant que l'aspect psychologique ne soit pas plus travaille. J'aurais tant aime ressentir la progression des sentiments d'O, le personnage principal. Au lieu de cela, O semble depourvue de volonte autant que de raison et le recit perd beaucoup en credibilite et en charme. Par ailleurs, le supplement "Retour a Roissy" saborde l'univers decrit dans les chapitres precedents. Quel en ...
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| 81. Wild Side Sex: the Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual and Entertaining Essays by Midori Tired of standing on the sexual sidelines? Come inside and be a real kink adventurer. A collection of essays travelling through the kinky side of sex, from a little public fornication to full-on BDSM, from the pen of the world-famous Midori. Midori's smouldering wisdom and frank commentary explore the wilder side of sex in a series of essays tracing a path through four hierarchically arranged sections: "Fundamentals of Kink I"; "Fundamentals of Kink II"; "Fetish Eroticism"; and "Tips and Tricks for Adventurous Sex". She writes with candour and enthusiasm about subjects ranging from outdoor sex ...
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| 82. 120 Days of Sodom (Arena Books) by Marquis De Sade D.A.F. I realise that such luminaries as Simone de Beauvoir claim to have perceived a profound philosophical value in this work, but my advice would be to steer clear. On one level, it may be regarded as a telling comment on the depths to which people who have everything and are answerable to no one will descend if given the opportunity. I think, however, that de Sade could have conveyed precisely the same message in 25 pages or less, and could quite easily have dispensed with the additional 750-odd pages of child rape, scatological yearnings, mutilation, and everything else that is described in ...
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| 83. Protocols: Handbook for the Female Slave (M/S Studies Books) by Robert J. Rubel While recognizing that every Master creates individualized protocols for a slave, this book is an example of a real protocol manual in a real-life situation. The content is virtually the same as the content for “Protocol Manual for the Leather slave,” except while that book is gender-neutral, this book assumes that the Master is male and that the slave is female. This guide demonstrates a range of ways for a slave to express her love for her Master through her actions. In this case, her actions include ways of standing, sitting and speaking (ways of being) as well as ways of preparing ...
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| 84. In Search of a Master by John Preston Young, virile, and hungering for something more than a stagnant New England mill town has to offer, Timothy is at a crossroads. Never looking back, Timothy plunges into a bizarre, seductive world where his master's wish is his command--and where the ties that bind might just lead to true emancipation.
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| 85. Academy, the: Tales of the Marketplace (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou If you noticed anything about S/M fiction in over the last year or so, then you know that it's been impossible to get your hands on any of the Marketplace books. When Masquerade Books released the third book in the series, The Trainer, it quickly went through two printings before vanishing from sight. Why? Because Masquerade Books vanished from sight. Yes, no matter how many Masquerade Books you may see on your local Borders bookshelves, they are actually no longer in business. Fear not. Mystic Rose Books has picked up where Masquerade Books left off, continuing Laura Antoniou's ...
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| 86. How to be a Dominant Diva by Georgia Payne This book details exactly how to go about taking charge of your sex life. If you are a woman curious about how to start experimenting with some role play in your sex life, this is the perfect book for you. It details step by step how to set up role play scenes: what to wear, what props you might need, what to say, how to to go about every aspect of spicing up your sex life. And it is full of ideas for the timid to the daring so I can see using this book for a long time. The fantasies are hot, so just reading this book will add some heat before you even start trying it out. Perfect for the ...
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| 87. Philosophy in the Boudoir (Penguin Classics) by Marquis De Sade D.A.F. This most joyous of de Sade’s works follows three aristocrats as they indoctrinate Eugénie de Mistival in “the principles of the most outrageous libertinism.”
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| 88. The Master's Manual: Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella I am a hetero dom and, contrary to someone's earlier homophobic review, I found this book to be of great interest and extremely relevant. The need to understand dominance and submission trancends gender and orientation. The book is thoughtfully written and well edited. There are many complex philosophical issues within the leather experience that I have tangled with myself and the author addresses those issues with care, attention and the insight of one who has resolved his own internal conflicts. Jack, you done good. Thanks for your work and your willingness to share your experience. ...
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| 89. Tarnsman of Gor: 1 (Gor) by John Norman I was somewhat disappointed in the first book of the series. I first stumbled upon Gor in a used bookstore several years ago while browsing. I picked up Nomads of Gor and thought what the heck, I'll give it a try. I couldn't put it down! It was simply the most exciting, best book I had ever read. Since then I have reread it several times and even though I think Assassin is the best book of the series, Nomads is my favorite. I ended up reading 5 or 6 of the other books before I finally found the first 3 through Amazon. Starting with Raiders, the series dramatically begins to slide ...
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| 90. Entertainment for a Master by John Preston JOHN PRESTON, THE MASTER OF EROTIC FICTION, RETURNS WITH THIS SCINTILLATING EROTIC NOVEL "Volunteers needed for a very private, very elegant S/M party for a discreet group of ladies and gentlemen to be held in San Francisco. Only the very willing and the experienced need apply..." And only a virtuoso of erotic fiction could build a spellbinding novel from the planning and preparation for an S/M party. In ENTERTAINMENT FOR A MASTER, acclaimed author John Preston follows a skilled and respected dom as he interviews - and personally inspects - the men who respond to his unusual advertisement. ...
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| 91. The Loving Dominant by John Warren The Loving Dominant is not just for the novice and experienced dominant player. It is also for the submissives, masochists, and bottoms within the scene. This book is a valuable resource for those of us into submission and masochism. It allows us to look at BDSM from the top perspective and learn more about what we enjoy having done to us. This book delves into it all from knots, safer techniques, first-aid, various forms of play, consent, to submission written from the submissive point of view.Whether you are new or experienced, dominant or submissive, you will learn a ton from ...
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| 92. Outlaw of Gor by John Norman The first novel in John Norman's Counter-Earth Series, "Tarnsman of Gor," owed a debt to "A Princess of Mars," the first John Carter novel by Edgar Rice Burroughs. Both of the second novels in these series begin the same way, with the hero finally able to return to the distant planet where they can begin to search for the great love of their life. But after the beginning of "Outlaw of Gor" Norman abandons the parallels to Burroughs and starts to build on the elements introduced in the first novel to create his own unique world. "Outlaw of Gor" offers a radical reintroduction to the world of ...
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